maddamemira on Collarspace

7/29/2012 6:33:26 PM

I honestly dont know what the statistics are for finding love/companionship/intimacy after a broken marriage/heart, but in my experience it isnt the easiest task especially if your searching on the internet. Unfortunately the statistics of finding "true love" (or what have you) on the internet probably wont change, the risks outweigh the gains. If it isnt mutually beneficial for both parties, or its foundation isnt grounded with honesty and understanding, the relationship/frienndship will not last long at all! And people no longer have the patience to fight for fading relationships, that might have potential nowadays.
I am honest and as clear as a 23 year old woman can be. ;) Especially about finding intimacy in such a small and judgemental world. I am a young african american woman, a student, with two jobs

as a housekeeper and cashier. I have children from a previously ended marriage, I am human and like any single mother I work my american butt off just to try an remain ahead of the curve. I have had part time customer service jobs like most normal people and in all those jobs ive learned plenty of things about people and what they require at the end of the day is simple!!! Either Love or more money to stay happily afloat over the majority of people who unfortunately dont. I have had jobs that have ranged from exotic dancing, to cashering in supermarkets and have held them for years!
I love meeting new people and listening to different ideas, &personalities.I love to hear about peoples journeys or other religions. I dont have any racial/lifestyle hangups, people are people at the end of the day no matter color. You could look just like me and still have an ugly personality. I am interested in meeting someone I can be myself around without judgement like everyone else online, whether I choose to be lady like or naughty! wink wink*
Honestly I would like to go out to a nice dinner with someone mature enough to hold a decent conversation, without disrespecting eachothers views! I like to go to dinner, walk on the beach, read with or to someone else, I can be sweet and nuturing or aggressive and dominant. The way the world is racing to please someone else unimportant or to keep up with the "jones'", I feel I am one of the few young women who have walked in my shoes from possibly a similar background and still fight to see the same optimism in people, & life. And still request to explore more!! I have the ambition to find a friend compatible to myself with the same views while I chase my professional career goals. I have no interest in manipulating or decieving anyone, what you see and read is exactly what I intend on giving to another person, mostly all my friendship and hospitality.
I have one UNREMOVEABLE limit I give respect where it is due, and I choose to remain discreet about anything we discuss in private together should REMAIN our business not that of the internet or our other friends. I dont entertain the company of younger men or women because their attention span isnt large enough for a woman like me who like most women need to be heard constantly :) I am looking for older men

or women who are interested in a NSA friendhsip/ relationship that can become mutually beneficial for the both of us. I can host but not travel far, although I do drink socially, I do not smoke but I cast no judgement on those that do. I have friends that do whatever with their bodies and I will do whatever I choose with my body! ;) wink wink wink lol I would like other like minded people race/gender/height/weight unimportant, 35+, and professional like myself. I am eager to meet you, & see where this grows!!!!!! ;)