It really is time for an update.  I have been on this site, as a virtual time user, for years.  I started out, knowing that I had always been interested in bdsm, and not knowing where I would end up on the spectrum.  somewhat to my surprise most excitement I found the most gratification placing myself into into  the submissive role to men..

I am married, and my wife does not want me playing on line with women.  I have subbd for some men.  And have found the experiences very rewarding.  I am a sub, not a slave.  My interest, thus far, has been and is in physical play, heavily sensual.  I have thought about slavehood, and if I am ever a slave it is to my wife.  Perhaps, not a very good one, however, I do belong to her.

Later on, from correspondence, I found myself quite often in the dominant role.  And I found that I thoroughly enjoyed it, especially the feeling of attentive power.  And the sexual imagery changed.  I fould that I was taking pleasure from the   prospect of the act along with an exhileraton of feeling power.  So I truly am a switch

I certainly am open to relating, playing with couples.  I am fascinated to the ways men and women perceive this power exchange.