I am having a problem committing to my new Mistress. I don't know anything about her and is not volunteering anything. Should I ask her? Or would that be disrespecting her and the given authority I have given her. To be completely obedient and submissive requires a serious commitment  to make it be real. I don't think I can do this with out more information.

Where does she live?

Does she have any others  serving her?

Has she done this before?

What does she ultimately want from me.

These are not questions, that I think could be considered offensive.