---i have been out of the loop for several years now due to health and personal reasons and keep this site up to stay in touch with old friends and contacts.
what you should know about me.....
i am not young and not thin....but i am still breathing and i have not been issued my own zip code .....built for comfort not speed is a good description. i like to think that a couple of extra scoops of vanilla make the milkshake thick and all the sweeter... i am not bad looking and can be very fun. i believe i would make a great partner.
i am not interested in a relationship that is 24/7 dom/sub. i would ultimately like to find someone for a long term relationship, however the bdsm is more seasoning than the main dish. ....it seems that if you are owner and owned twenty four seven, you miss out on too many aspects of the other person. i am very much believe in the success of the "fifties household". it seems like it is more the way things should be. but don't let that make you think that i am not a strong independent woman. i have been out in the "vanilla" world all of my life in many successful situations and i have owned my own business.
i am not a masochist. if you ask me if i like pain, no, i don't....it hurts...but i do acknowlege some pain can be part of the experience.
i am not interested in cheating hubbies or any form of sneaking around or submission on the sly....
i want to know more about you than just sex and bdsm. if thats all you want to discuss then i am most likely not interested
who i am looking for.....
please be between the ages of 55 and 60....or at least reasonably close. looks are relatively unimportant as long as you don't frighten children or my little dog.
please be dominant and strong......smart and a sense of humor are essential. dull, domineering men are a hard limit for me. if you are the type of dominant that never smiles and is rarely pleased or adverse to having fun with your submissive then i doubt its going to be a good match.
also, please be reasonably close to the orange county/la county border in california..... i am not interested in cyber or web domination.
if you are still reading and smiling and feel you would be interested and fit most of the requests above, i would love to hear from you.........
think of me as your martini.....will i be shaken or stirred?
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i find it amusing that too many of the men on this site find their proposed dominance as an excuse for not being a gentleman. both characteristics require control and self esteem. i cannot imagine a man that is true dominant lacking the ability to behave himself as a gentleman.
i find it interesting that many of the men that contact me from this site are unable to talk about anything but sex or bdsm. this tells me a variety of things: first, they need to expand their lives more. even i in my lowly state...lol...have the capicity to converse cordially. secondly, they lack confidence in their own dominance find a need to flaunt what should be demonstrated. believe me, actions speak much louder than words. lastly, because they seem to be willing to become that intimate, that early on in knowing someone...maybe they are not nearly as discrimating as they think they are.
when it comes to references, discretion is the better part of valor. ;)
