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Female Dominant, 25, Brampton, ON
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About Lothlauren
Welcome to my profile.
Let me introduce myself, I am Master Loth or better known as Lothlauren. For all you that are curious I do have an alpha sub, note she is actually a bisexual switch so this does make some evenings and mornings quite interesting when her dominant side decides to take hold.
About myself, I am a dominant, this is clear by the selections I have made by opening this account. I am certain I am a dominant not a switch in hiding. But unlike alot of what I see I am NOT an unreasoning dominant, I can be relentless and very aggressive. I am also aware that there is a fine line between pleasure inducing pain and abuse, this is a line I would choose not to cross so if there is no doubt in your mind you want me to "Beat you to a bloody pulp" rest assured, it will not happen. However, if you as a submissive want a dominant couple, Dom or Domme to "abuse" you to where you will wind up whimpering under the slightest stroke against your body and think you know how to please another during this torment then send Us an email.
That being said, I also think and assume that most of the slaves and submissives look at the profiles looking for the one Dom, Domme or Dominant Couple that stands out. When you look at my profile, do not assume that I dont know what my preferences are or that I cant push you to your limits based on my above statement. That however could never be more wrong, there is more than one way to torment and push the limits on a person, many of them never involve actual physical striking.
It may however involve one or more of the following.
1.) Toys - This could be anything from a simple finger vibrator to a sybian.
2.) Collars - This is something that is usually simple and elegant during the day, and sometimes more functional at night. This is something that requires foreknowledge of the slave or submissive in question.
3.) Cuffs - This is strictly a play time toy, it will be used to restrain and prevent movement during certain activities.
4.) Hoods - This is a punishment device, I will leave its details to your imagination.
5.) Ropes, Neckties and Chains - All forms of restraint and bondage, some or all will be practiced.
5.) Latex - Only recently have I/We have been introduced to the liquid quick forming latex and it demonstrates many interesting qualities. So exploration in this aspect would take place occasionally or frequently as situations permit.
6.) Clothing - There will be different items of clothing, lingerie and such paraphernaila available for play time, and role playing sessions. Clothing is something that will be controlled to a great extent, so if you do come pack your favorites because I/We may just decide that they suit the situation.
I do know that the above seems an unlikely list for tormenting a person, but perhaps the mind is the most powerful tool one has in the array of implements that is truly available to any dominant.
What I/We are looking for in the submissive or slave that does accept the offer is the following qualities.
1.) Female - For the first addition to the household female is an unalterable requirement.
2.) Height and Weight - Not to seem picky or superficial but there must be pleasure in lookinig at one's submissive or slave and it is hard to dominate someone who is larger than you. So bearing this in mind she must be not be substanstially larger than my alpha sub. For those who are curious She also has a profile here listed as ShyMistress. Now of course there are always exceptions but those are exactly that, exceptions.
3.) Personality - Now this opens pandora's box, literally and figuratively. A sense of humor and an awareness of their surroundings is a must. Intelligence is greatly desired and valued.
Email Us to find out more
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Well the last few months have been interesting. I/We are still looking for our live in sub as the last one became dominant and grew in her own direction.
I welcome all that are interested to write but please be aware that you may not be what we are interested in.
Our interests and indulgences have grown and expanded since I last updated this profile and therefore will entertain any possibilities as long as it can be safe and fun for everyone involved.
Ok not fun for everyone *wink* |
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Well I have not made an entry in a while, guess I should remedy that for everyone who does take the time to read these things.
I must say there are a few things that annoy me when I am browsing around looking at submissive/slave's profiles and one is the absolutely empty profiles, no profile, no journal entries and absolutely no likes or dislikes selected, seriously, do you really think that all Dom/mes etc are that hard up that they will without knowing anything about you initiate contact?
or accept an attempt to initiate contact? Better be one hell of an introduction letter and be very well written.
When you give a long term situation any kind of consideration, you must be able to consider the personality, likes and dislikes of the persons involved in the situation or it will be doomed to failure.(There are noted exceptions to this with certain types of situations ie tpe etc)
Another thing that gets my huh??? going is the profiles that are listed as submissive/slave and they talk about topping or domming you.... does anyone else see the issue here??
switches I can understand saying this and even derive amusement/pleasure from said activities... they are switches after all.
but a submissive writing about how she will bend over a guy and whip his ass before attacking it with a strapon like the little bitch deserves... does not seem submissive in any shape or form..(I honestly dont see a dom ordering her to do said items to them...)
Those submissives I see needing to reassess their desires and stances in their lifestyle choices. That or they need someone even more aggressive, although I can not see that leading to anything mutually beneficial.
I know that when Shy and I select a canididate for our next session they will be viewed carefully and reviewed several times, and unfortunately for those who dont take the time to fill some information into the profile. (height weight and preferences come to mind really quickly)
Will not even be considered, on that note I must say that right now Kajiradream is under consideration and looking at joining us for at least three months here in the next month or so, she will have to journey across the Alantic from the UK. But I am looking forward to her addition to the Household, so at this time we are not looking for a livein situation anymore.
We are however still looking for the occasional session partner, please keep in mind we are NOT looking for a one night fling or a stop and go arrangement. We are more interested in someone who would be back again and we could get to know the buttons on. This "Casual" partner/submissive would be treated with respect (unless humiliation was the name of the session) and their likes and dislikes would be taken into consideration.
Master Loth
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I had the misfortune of finding out one of Shy's more mischievous sides... shes a sunburn slapper.
I took her to the beach and enjoyed the day seemed really nice, windy but nice, and wound up with a good sunburn that didnt rear its head until way later that evening.
The problem with a Dom/Domme couple is, when the dominant side comes out theres only another dominant around to exercise it. (Lucky me... shes a switch, or Unlucky me at certain times)
Mind you the whole time I typed this she lathed a soothing cream on the burn so...
Enough said.... Ciao
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A quick note to all those who read this and the profile before messaging... Thank you
Those that message before reading... wake up you fools, ie the straight male submissives begging for domination from Me... Wake the F&%K up and quit basing all your actions on a picture |
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Many people, inside and out of the lifestyle seem to think one thing about the lifestyle. Its about pain either how much can be given or how much can be endured, while for some people this is the be all and end all of their want and desire for the lifestyle. as for the ones that are out of the lifestyle (Vanilla as some like to put it) frankly who cares, either they accept you for who you are or not, what it comes down to is satisfaction with what you are doing.
Pain as far as I am concerned is a tool, to be used if necessary and if the situation warrants it, dont ask Me what will make me beat you though as I dont think thats a question that can be answered easily. I have stated time after time that the best way in MY OPINION the best way to exert your will upon another is to make the other cherish you and feel devotion to you. I have also found that this is different with each individual and if you tried to apply a pattern to it you will find that it breaks down in some section of it.
Now dont get Me wrong here but if the roleplay calls for a flogger then the flogger is used, but dont expect Me to whip out the flogger and put a beating on the submissive because she spilled my coffee or something minor like that.
Before you ask me what I would do with a submissive/slave that continually spilled My coffee every morning, this is what I would do in such a situation. Firstly on the third offense I would get the submissive to start picking up the fluid with a the intent to measure the amount of fluid lost and then calculate the number of cups of coffee lost in a month, a year. If it continued on for the whole week I then would insist on an averaging of the said amounts on a week basis and those numbers recalculated but also figuring in a decade (accounting for leap years of course). After two weeks the submissive or slave would be subjugated to a training session involving graceful movement with the cup in question while in a training harness of some shape or form.
Anyways thats my rant for now... Ciao
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Been having an off and on again conversation with a couple submissives and it confirms what I have always thought.
That its important to actually have a conversation with potentials and non potentials and to pay attention to that conversation. You may not always agree but you will always learn something if you listen to everything said even if it is only something about the person you are talking to.
Another thing that I have learned is that everyone is exploring or expanding their knowledge/experience however you want to call it.
And this I know of Myself/Us and that is. If you as a submissive think that We are weak or not strict enough because We will not cripple you to punish you. Think on this `A crippled submissive/slave does you no immediate good other than having someone who can not take care of their duties.` NOTE: if they have to be crippled to be listening We dont want them. Now if I have to haul out the strap and spank soundly an errant submissive well thats another story... besides its fun to watch an unruly submissive take their supper standing. |
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Been just looking around at the "Fellow Dominant, Dommes and what not", I am becoming concerned for the general view of this lifestyle. Far too many of the Dominants appear to be... "Twisted".
Yes I did say twisted, some of the things they talk about doing sounds more like a testosterone freak on a rampage and ego stroke than what could be considered normal.
I am sure I will take some flak over this comment but in the end run of things... I would say these things in person and hold to my Moral compass as such as it is.
What is My moral compass you ask, it is not much different than the simple value of respect.
1.) Respect others
2.) Respect yourself
3.) Respect your surroundings
follow those three things and you will find your way through life to be much more satisfying if not much easier. |
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Recently seen some stuff done with clothespins and what could be considered a flogger... very intriguing this was. The suspension and rope tying was very good but I felt that the weights and clothespins brought a level of sensation to the recipient I had found exhilirating to observe.
The flogger was nice to distract the recipient from the constant of the weights and the unusual suspension angles.
Again it was all intriguing
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I have always thought of Myself as a fairly intelligent person, however lately there have been a few things I just can not figure out for the life of Me.
Namely submissives and slaves who have in their profile.. only strong women contact me. or something along those lines, why in the world would you select Dom/Dom couple or Dom/Domme couple as something you are searching for if its only a Domme that you are looking for? |
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One thing I have found pleasing is when A potential slave/submissive is upfront with their wants and needs. It removes any doubts or illusions to whether they are suitable or not and also leaves no doubts as to their sincerity. |
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A Pet peeve of Mine is subs who are fairly untalkative or ignore questions outright. I can understand being shy and finding somethings hard to answer but to act as if a direct question was not asked...
Really, why start dialogue or even state an interest if you are not going to answer a question. Otherwise how are We/I going to find out if there is compatibility or a genuine interest if questions are not asked by both parties? |
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Was looking at the who's viewing me feature.. a few interesting people... but what slays Me is the few "Doms" that have emailed Me Telling me that I must do this and that... what the f*%k cant you guys read a freakin profile... come on now you just look like a real tard. and if your sending out those form letters to the subs here on the site... no freakin wonder they think the Doms on this site are a joke.
Grow some real ones guys.. |
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Was ShyMistress's B-Day yesterday, and I/We made sure she enjoyed it. No nothing absolutely fancy or fantabulous, although by the end of the day She was exhausted and said she enjoyed it immensely...
LOL what a day to have a birthday..
Will have to consider surprising her with something soon.
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Another Rule I would expect adhered to is behaviour and attendance to duties while not in the presence of Myself or ShyMistress. This is a reflection of the household and I would be seriously disappointed if not to say a little "peeved" when informed or learning of trangressions against such codes of behaviour. As for Expected Behaviour, well it depends on the situation, a Dom/Domme is being rather rude and was not placed in that position of authority by Myself or ShyMistress and was not "listened" to or was told how it really was would NOT be punished. Again this goes with my thought and impression that while a submissive/slave is of a meeker stance than those of a Dominant nature, this does not turn them into catch all doormats or punching bags. (Unless that was their function in the first place)
However, in an instance where the behaviour was uncalled for or simply beyond what was called for then the punishment should fit the crime.
Punishments could and would range from segregation and confinement away from the rest of the household and general interactions, to a discipline session with the "offended" Dominant in attendance.
Rewards for appropriate behaviour would take the likes and preferences of the submissive/slave into account and would depend on the situation where their behaviour was being observed. |
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One Rule I would expect to be diligently adhered to would be the decorum presented by any of My submissives.
Decorum in public would be demure and attentive, I am a Leo and love My attention. they of course would be dressed very nicely if not elegantly, a collar is not required but in My Opinion enhances the visage of any submissive/slave.
Public is the same as being around vanilla people in private.
In the home or in a Private setting I expect that My submissive display a bit of eagerness and the same level of attentiveness, I expect the submissive/slave to anticipate when possible the wants and desires of Myself and ShyMistress.
Rewards: This will be something that is discussed and decided upon with the submissive/slave in question. But to give an idea, an elegant evening on the town with the submissive/slave as the focal point. Or perhaps the attendance of said submissive/slave to an event such as a munch or gathering.
Punishments: Depending on the transgression it could range anywhere from a ball gag to full restriction of movement and possible caging of the submissive/slave. Flogging and sensory depravation would not be out of the question. again it depends on the transgression
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Came across something in a submissive's journal that made me think, and it was logical once I had thought it through. "Rules from a submissive to a Dominant" it does make sense, but however those rules need to be laid out and defined. No sense in having rules if the rules themselves are not known.
So in reflection I think that over the next few weeks I will be posting various rules and determinations I expect of My Household. Following that thought through to conclusion I think that I would need to define the punishments for violation of said rules as well. |
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I am becoming quite amazed at the unreliable nature of the submissives and slaves out there in the world when they are not under the yoke directly. Since joining this site I have been contacted by several different slaves or submissives.. everything seems well then... poof they are gone. No reason no rhyme.
I think and honestly feel that if you are not serious about this lifestyle and the offer I am making then DO NOT contact me, dont waste my time. I can find better things to do with my time than waste it detailing to a person on the other side of the country the duties and expectations that they will be under.
If you are serious about the lifestyle and see value in the offer, by all means contact me. I am not a Master who expects their slaves and submissives to say nothing or do nothing. I expect and require creativeness, ingenuity and a true dedication to Myself and the Household that I run. |
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Been looking around at profiles... what astounds me is the ones with no introduction, journal entries or even a list of wants or dislikes... how do we even know if they are what we are seeking or we are what they are seeking? |
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