lotusflower

i have been in this lifestyle for a little over 3 years. i've learned a lot about who i am and what i'm looking for. the two most important lessons i learned are to trust my instinct and be true to myself. i am naturally very submissive and eager to please. i've made the mistake of being too eager and allowing myself to be pushed further and faster than i could handle. i won't make that mistake again. i've learned to value myself and what i have to offer in a D/s relationship. i am kind, gentle, smart, attractive, spiritually and emotionally grounded, honest and fun. i have a very youthful and playful personality with a great love for life. this lifestyle is very important to me and i can't imagine myself in a relationship without this dynamic, however, i have other interests too. i believe in having a well balanced life. i enjoy walking, theater, camping, reading, dining out and socializing with friends. i spent my time in the lifestyle trying to be a slave. while i do have a slave's heart, i learned that i need to have at least a small say in the relationship and how it is run. i am more interested in power exchange and having a loving relationship than just finding a kinky partner. i need to be allowed to be a submissive until (or if ever) i feel ready to 100% surrender. it takes a long time and i'd like to find Someone who will enjoy the journey with me. i am looking for a Man who shares my values and love of life. He needs to be well balanced, intelligent, kind, interesting, financially stable, emotionally grounded and have the same passion for the lifestyle that i do. He also needs to be naturally dominant ... not just into kink. i am more interested in Someone who can stimulate my brain than any other area of my body. the rest will follow. please contact me if you think we might be compatible.