I would like to find the right woman for a LTR or even casual play in the interim, but I tend to get on here just to browse around, as there aren't so many 'lifestyle' dominant women here.
However, don't be shy, feel free to send a message. I'm more than willing to build friendships as well!
So, for a while now, I've been preoccupied with fantasizing about a particular scenario with similarities to my first bdsm fantasy as a child. This time it involves work rather than school, but I've been having the yearning desire to be held captive. This time by my boss, who's a bit older, and maybe/ maybe not surprisingly, we don't always get along well. She has control over something that I very much deserve, which is a promotion. The situation is then one in which I shall be given the promotion, but I must submit in order to receive it. In the real world, I can be an alpha-type male, and at times there can be somewhat of a power struggle. I think that fact, though, is driving the desire to submit even more. I want to let it out to her, but I'm assuming that would be a bad idea. Maintaining my career is probably the better choice.
Any thoughts or want to hear more, feel free to send a message...
This site should have a filter to differentiate between those who have a real interest in/ understanding of the deeper meaning of the BDSM lifestyle, and those who are just looking to get paid.
Attended my first ever event on Saturday, it was amazing! Many thanks to FemVa!?
