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Male Dominant, 44, Port Arthur, Texas
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Male Switch, 53, Johannesburg
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Male Dominant, 28, Fort Lauderdale, Florida
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About Lotharyx
Note It seems Collarspace is intent on removing certain punctuation marks from my text, causing me to look like a grammatically impaired Philistine. I assure you, this is not the case. However, I have striven to avoid contractions in the following text not because it is my typical way, but because Collarspace keeps deleting the apostrophes (as well as colons, semicolons, quotation marks, slashes, and hyphens, it seems).
Describing myself in a small block of text is a useless, academic exercise. However, there are some things you might benefit knowing about me.
1) I expect respect at all times.
2) In exchange for that respect, I will reward you with love and attention.
3) Corporal punishment is not punishment. It is play.
4) REAL punishment is deprivation. Hopefully it will not come to that too often.
5) Also, I am extremely kinky and not limited to Ds play (although I am not a switch). If you are into something else fringe, that you can enjoy either as a submissive or as an equal, suggest it.
Finally, it should go without saying but I will say it anyway. Consent is critical. |
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I'm forced to choose a garish background color, and my favorite color isn't among the options. ?How tremendously frustrating. ?Anyhow, if you've come so far as to view my profile and read my journal entries (entry, really), I thank you. ?Some notes:
- I'm 46 now (2026)
- My main profile text is old and I have matured since I wrote it. ?I don't want to incur the disabled-profile penalty by changing it. ?Please ignore most of it.
- Men and women have vastly different experiences on these sites. ?While I try my best to be understanding of the female firehose-of-idiots experience, I ask that you also be understanding of the male ignored-despite-effort experience, and consider if a polite negative response might be better than no response.
- I'm a sadistic Dom with a bent for degradation and punishment/pain. ?That said, my interests are flexible.
That's enough for now. ?I think most matchmaking sites are slowly dying, and collarspace is no exception. ?Here's hoping for a few more good connections before it breathes its last. |
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