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Male Dominant, 59, Bronx, New York
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Male Dominant, 32, Los Angeles, California
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Male Dominant, 55
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About LordEngland
I've been a member here for a couple of years, and to all the people who ask in their profiles "Is there anyone 'real' on here", I can answer yes, there is!� I don't refer solely to myself, but to the fun and interesting people I have already met, on-line and in person.
Since I first joined, I have updated my profile several times to reflect the changes I have experienced, and to address and update my evolving wants and needs.
So I guess I should get the nuts and bolts of 'me' out of the way, and later I will attempt to share my thoughts and feelings about the lifestyle, and what I want in the future.
So Me:
British.� Completely.� Accent, experience and upbringing.� It's an important point as it colours my outlook on everything, and being in the states reinforces the fact that whilst we speak the same language, our cultural outlooks are understandably different.� This always makes interaction interesting, but can lead to some (often comical) misunderstandings as the same words can mean diametrically opposed things depending on what language you were raised speaking.
Tall:� I'm very nearly 6'4" tall, fit and healthy.� I'm not sculpted, you'll find no 6-packs here, but I am height weight proportional, and I lack a beer belly or flab.� I don't 'work out', but my job keeps me active and I'm blessed with a body that does what I need it to do with little maintenance.
Well educated:� Degree in computer technology, well spoken, and interested in many diverse things.� If something is interesting, I learn about it, and try to understand it.
Well traveled:� I work in the entertainment industry (NOT as an entertainer).� I manage tours and events which take me all over the world.� I've been just about everywhere, and I enjoy the experience of new countries and cultures, but always the most interesting thing is the people I meet.
Dominant: Not demanding, or difficult.� I don't play up to it, I just have the character type that expects people to get done what I need doing.� This is probably why I run tours and events, rather than carrying boxes and taking orders, I've always known what needs to be where, and organize other people to actually get the job done.� This is a part of me, so I don't run around in my personal life being a 'Master', I just find that when I am in other peoples company people who are malleable or submissive want to do things for me.� It's just something that comes out naturally.
Sadistic.� I was always brought up to believe that ladies should be treated as such.� That's all well and good, but I have to be honest, I like hitting girls :-)� Not just hitting them of course, tying them up, putting clamps on nipples, listening for the intake of breath, the soft moan as the teeth start to bite, enjoying the discomfort I cause, and getting off on the fact that the victim is being rewarded by experiencing my control.
Sexually active:� Hell yeah!� I have a very high sex-drive, and clearly I have lots of opportunities to just get laid, which is nice.� However, a quick lay in no way satisfies my need for control, and I have always found that no matter how willing the subject they still need to 'know' me to understand my desires and how they can best fulfill them.� It goes way deeper than just sex though: this statement applies to all areas of a relationship, from what I find you attractive dressed in to the way I like my steaks cooked.� No one can be perfect the first time, and that is part of the�dynamic of a D/s relationship.� I am a good teacher, and what I look for most in all of my students (whether it be training a new technician to improving a submissive) is a willingness and desire to learn.
In my 'private' life, I train my partners, but if I have desires that do not line up with theirs then eventually the student cannot learn properly.� I can teach you how to perform a complicated technical task, but if you don't actually enjoy performing the task, or take great satisfaction having achieved the goal, it is ultimately unsatisfying and can't last.
As a part of my demanding nature I will expect to you to learn and refine your behaviors until they fulfill my desires.� If the goal (your total submission to Me) is not your goal too, then you can't fake it.� It might be fun and exciting in the short term, but can become repetitive and difficult unless the end result is where you want to arrive.
I enjoy 'taking' from a� willing sub, but I also enjoy a sub who gives freely to try to please, rather than having to extract every little thing, every time.� There is a balance, and it's a difficult one to strike.
I've left my previous profile below, but this is who I am today.
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I relocated from England a couple of years ago, currently residing near Pittsburgh�via Los Angeles.� I may stay in this area, but I'm fond of travel, have no particular ties to any given place, and I have friends all around the country.� I'm a free spirit, and will land wherever I may.� If you become part of the adventure, you can come along for the ride - if you want to.� Eventually I'll decide on a place to settle, but for now I'm leaving all my options open.
I'm actively seeking a submissive girl - or preferably a couple - for real time (and real) play and experiences; I've always found cyber is a waste of time and effort (prove me wrong why don't you?) Furthermore it�only causes�frustration to all involved.
I am completely colour-blind: I care not what your race or ethnicity may be, nor do I care too much about age, attitude is everything.
I am very experienced and well equipped for the D/s lifestyle,�my�last girly�being a full time and accommodating sub of 12 years in my service, and the reason I'm in the States in the first place.
I'm tall, of medium build and (according to those who have met me) handsome and charming.� However, it's amazing what people will say to stop the crop from landing, and they get even more inventive when they are close to a sexual peak, and it is only I who have the ability to release them.� I'm no George Clooney, but you won't be embarrassed to be seen with me.
I am quite happy to consider newbies, but honesty and commitment are�HUGELY important - no time wasters or wannabes please!�I'm for real and will only entertain the thought of you if you are too.
Ideally I am seeking an ongoing or full time relationship although an occasional play partner or meetings/sessions with someone who piques my interest (so to speak) would be fun.� Heck, play sessions are always fun, but when they work out really well, as they�often do, it's frustrating to know that it will be some time before we can play again!
No matter what your size, if you have the right attitude, you are welcome to contact me. You must be feminine though.� I don't want to top a burly guy.� :-)
E-mail first, then a� meeting on neutral ground, followed eventually (and hopefully) by a session or two to prove compatibility.
Drop me a line - it's worth it and you know you want to :-)
Remember: in this life, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Oh yeah.� This shouldn't need saying, but it seems it does:��I'm safe, sane and�d/d free.� You will be too or else it's all a bit of a waste of time contacting, innit?
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I have been a little remiss in posting updates, which has caused some confusion - for which I apologise.
I am living on the gulf coast in Florida, and I am pleased to report I have found my "one".
We are working to make ours the perfect pairing, so I am not looking at the moment.
Having said that, we would both welcome contact from single submissive girls, or exceptional sub/sub or Dom/sub couples.
We wish you all well and good luck in your searches and we hope you find the happiness we are enjoying.
Peace. |
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For all I said I was retired, and wanted no more part of the madness, I get bored and I miss it.
I've been offered a job that allows me to indulge myy creativity and technical acumen, without having to be away from home for months at a time. I will have the flexibility to go see my friends when I want, but remain based here.
I'm thinking about it. |
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Just because the leash is long, it does not mean the collar is loose.
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Well I've been here (Florida) for 2 weeks now and I've already met lots of fun and interesting people. Not actually from C.M. although I've 'talked' to several people on here, it would appear the natives are friendly!
Amazing the demand for the services I provide (I'm talking about my professional services) so I'm almost definitely coming out of retirement. I get bored easily and sitting on the beach all day can get boring. I know, who'd have thought hanging out all day would get old, but it does.
The best bit is I can do my work without having to be away from home for weeks or months on end, and I can pick and choose what projects to take on. Life is good!
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Right then, I've made it down to Florida.
Looks like I might have stumbled into more work, so my schedule has suddenly become very fluid.
I plan on staying for quite a while - especially if I can find the right one. |
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It's coming up to Halloween (I love the little pumpkin that C. M. have added to the logo), but remember, I AM the Bogie man, and if you're not careful I Will Get You! LOL!!! |
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So here I am in PA.
It's snowing (I love the snow).I've been in California for 3 years and I miss the snow; Here are the two forecasts for snow: Sierra Madre (Just outside of L.A.): Today: "We're going to have nothing short of brilliant weather. Wednesday and Thursday a front will drop into California; however it is not going to bring rain, just a few high clouds. There will also be a slight drop in temperatures, but these will be replaced over the weekend by above normal highs. In fact, Sunday, highs could reach 80 degrees or better under clear, sunny skies. Source - KTLA Pittsburgh: Today: "Cloudy with isolated snow showers this morning...then partly sunny this afternoon. Highs in the mid 20s. Southwest winds 5 to 10 mph. Chance of snow 20 percent. Tonight: Mostly cloudy. Lows around 15. South winds around 5 mph." Source: thepittsburghchannel.com
In short: The weather is rubbish, but the people are great. I have no comment on the football teams, as noone kicks the football with their feet. However the Arsenal seem to be doing well back in England. |
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I'm in Pennsylvania!
I'm still not sure why, but I am sure that I'd had enough of Southern California.
I don't even know how long I'm going to be here, I have lots of friends all round the US, and as I'm wandering right now I don't know where next, or even when.
I'm gonna stay here for a while, but if I don't find something (or someone) interesting to do, I'm already considering my next move. It could be Denver, or New Hampshire, or Florida. I'm hoping I just run into someone interesting and maybe it will be none of the above.
I love this freedom.
How strange. I'm valuing my carefree and footloose existence, and yet I strive to remove freedom of movement from the people I meet. I don't like to be tied down, and yet I love tying down others and removing the very freedom I value so highly. There's probably psychology in there somewhere. Tops don't like to be spanked, and subs don't like to give orders. Anyone who gets a Doctorate out of that observation should make sure that I get a mention in the Bibliography :-)
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Well it's the Holiday season, and Santa brought me lots of cool stuff, but not what I really wanted.
Of course, what I wanted was toys to play with, and ideally a toy to have and keep as my very own!
I have all this wonderful bondage gear, and no one to strap it on to. I must admit, that most of it I've had for a while but having an active imagination, even the most mundane of things can be turned into BDSM gear. You ought to see what I can do with a safety pin and a pencil :-)
I've got an active social life, but I'm a little bored on the tying people up and spanking them front.
Maybe for new year?
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I really do want to find someone, well actually someones - I'd prefer a couple, who wants to actually live the life. I mean 24/7, 365.
I've been playing a lot recently and it's all good fun, but there are always schedule conflicts and so it's inevitably an occasional thing.
It would be so cool to be able to come home, get the sub(s) out of the box (or cage as it would be) and know that I had them at my disposal until I was done with them.
Subbie couples are so much fun, as when I'm tired I can relax and have one abuse the other to my specifications. I've been playing with a couple recently, but it is obvious it will never be more than a part time/occasional thing.
If you are in a committed relationship with another truly submissive partner, maybe you should drop me a line.
Who knows, maybe wonderful things will happen |
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Well now, I've spent my entire adult life traveling the world and having all sorts of adventures.
I've moved here to the USA (Los Angeles area actually) from the UK, and suddenly my life seems to have become a little stagnant. I haven't changed, and I'll go charging off to Canada or Vegas at the drop of a hat, but being in the same place for nearly two years is becoming quite wearing.
I'd really like to meet someone who will help me explore my adventurous side and take me 'around the world' without having to leave the comfort of my own home.
I can travel in my head and in my fantasies, I just need the right vessel. |
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