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Male Dominant, 59, Bronx, New York
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Male Dominant, 55
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Male Dominant, 59, Austin, Texas
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About lordearcher
Greetings...
I have a realistic approach to the world we live in, instead of one based off of a Sci-Fi novel or the idea that it takes breaking someone to get them to submit. Simply put... If I have to "break" you to get you to submit, then you are of no use to me. My theories allow a freedom to interweave whatever aspects of the lifestyle work best for the relationship with the Dom or submissive. As with any relationship...its not always just a one way street.
It is in my experience that each relationship between Dom and sub is very different and unique. What one might consider a natural way of life, might not be viewed the same in a different relationship. By opening the doors and breaking out of the internet "Y/you, H/he, W/we" and other misc standards... this allows the Dom and sub the ability to find a satisfying medium and mold the relationship to what works for them. Mind you this is not some privy classified information, but an understanding between two individuals.
Beyond popular belief, each and every person has the option of choice in his or her life. If you truly do not believe you have choice, I highly recommend talking to someone on the professional level. However, with that said, as the relationship grows, the submissive is encouraged to not 'need' to exercise choice when giving herself fully to her Dom.
I also do not believe in girls that call themselves slaves right off the bat. In my views, she may say she is slave, but true slavery only comes at the point in a Dominant and submissive's relationship, where the submissive can freely give anything and everything, that she is, to her Dominant. Then and only then, has a true slave been born. Sometimes it happens naturally and sometimes it takes time to build such a bond, and unfortunately sometimes it doesn't happen at all.
Some of my pet peeves...
Deceitful, needy 'me me me' girls, the whole capitalize my name but lowercase your name (use proper grammar, you look more intelligent that way), whining, inattentive, brats, stupidity, unable to think for yourself, flighty... just to name a few
Outside of what irritates the shit out of me, let me tell you about me and what I am looking for.
I am not looking for someone to cook my dinner and do my laundry and fluff my pillows and kiss my ass ALL the time. I cook and am pretty good at it, I do my own laundry because I can be very OCD. I'm neat, and orderly and expect 'her' to be as well. I will not tolerate a messy unorganized shitstorm. I'm bullheaded and if needed can be cold as ice (yes I love that song). I don't like to repeat myself over and over. I understand sometimes people miss something, but seriously, if you ask me three times what I said, I'm not going to be a happy camper.
As I said before, I can be a bit OCD at times. I'm a perfectionist by nature, and I work a lot. I build websites on the side and an analyst by day. I'm looking for a relationship that will mix well with my day to day life as well as my evening life as well. If you find what I've wrote so far something of interest, then drop me a line. If not, then I wish you the best of luck on your journey.
Lorde Archer
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I'm going to be in the Los Angeles area from July 15 - 25.? While I'm there, I'm going to be staying with friends, but will also be checking out the local communities as well as checking out the sites of the city.? If you'd be interested in meeting up, let me know and we'll make arrangements.
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Pet peeves:
1. Fake pictures; it's so totally obvious
2. lil girls that don't reply to emails. It's quite rude and disrespectful. If some one takes the time to write something, be polite and respond.
3. I'm a hardass by nature so don't think I'm going to soften up and be all cutesy. It's not going to happen so don't get all whiney when it doesn't.
4. Excuses... Pathetic lame and annoying. I need another 'excuse' like I need an asshole on my elbow.
5. lil girls that start to say something and then stop midway and try to avoid what they had already started.
6. Bitchy whiney 'me me me' girls. I have no patience for your kind any more. |
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"Treat her as your own flesh, command her as her lord, cherish her as your helper, rule her as your pupil, please her in all things reasonable, but teach her not to be curious in things that belong not to her. You are the head, she is your body, it is your office to command and hers to obey, but yet with such a sweet harmony as she should be as ready to obey as you to command, as willing to follow as you to go before, your love being wholly knit unto her, and all her affections lovingly bent to follow your will." ~King James~ |
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"If his unpleasant wounding has in some way enlightened the rest of you, as to the grim finish below the glossy venire of criminal life and inspired you to change your ways then his injuries carry with it an inherent nobility and a supreme glory. We should all be so fortunate. You say poor Toby, I say poor us." |
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I went to the woods because I wanted to live deliberately.... I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life.... To put to rout all that was not life... And not, when I had come to die, discover I had not lived.
~H.D. Thoreau~ |
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Players and the wannabe's are getting quite annoying. It seems that these people have nothing else better to do than to waste valuable time, and make it all the more difficult for the more sincere P/people that come to this site to actually use it to its full potential in finding the O/one that completes them.
The word of the day, "Melvin". A term used for the players of the internet. I'm willing to bet that 95% of those gut feelings are correct. If Y/you feel Y/you have been Melivinized, abort mission immediately. That gut feeling that O/one gets that makes T/them wonder if the other is being sincere or not, the tragic family happenings that just dont allow for the melvin to meet or stay in contact, or whatever reoccurring mishap that may continue to come up.... Melvin.
Don't get Me wrong, things happen in r/l that just can not be avoided, however at the same time, take caution when dealing with the never ending trauma that O/one may encounter. |
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