Update: I cannot believe how long its been since I wrote the following intro! A lot has changed. OH, I am still single but my time to "play" has come to almost stand still. :( Just very busy yet never found much harm in popping in from time to time. Guess you never know when a priority changer may come along.
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Looking for......
Well, actually, I do not have a direct answer to that question. Ideally and primarily I am looking for a long term D's relationship yet I am also hoping to win the lottery... Go figure. So, as I work towards that objective and need in my life, I have come to realize that the search can, and should, be just as fun.
It is actually hard for me to believe that I have been "active" in this lifestyle for over ten years. (starting with one deliciously fateful relationship in 1997)
During my journey I have come to realize quite well that anyone can hold a flogger and, while some may not be so capable with rope, anyone can work a pair of handcuffs. The acts do not define the person nor can one simply state what they are either way and have that be truth. It just doesnt work that way if you ask me.
Personally, I wont handcuff myself into stating that I am either sub, switch or Dom (pardon the pun) Why would I? I LOVE kink and the more kink the better. I deeply enjoy fetish based encounters from taking a strap-on, CBT, bondage.... ect. ect. and so-on to being aggressive and doing the same in return. I would imagine myself to *fit* more in the switch catagory then anything yet I would still state that I lean much more to the sub side. Either way and most importantly who I am with and how we interact with each other truely sets the tone, if that makes sense?
The most interesting aspect of D's encounters to me has been the realization of the fact that one can have a mind-blowing sensual and erotic encounter that is deeply and profoundly statisfying for both participants without ever crossing over into actual or traditional intercourse. Talk about foreplay!
Anyway.....
I am here first and foremost to take that first step. To MEET like minded, kinky, fun, entertaining, interesting, attractive, intelligent, kinky, real people (Yeah, I wrote "kinky" twice) Anything beyond that is fully in the hands of fate and time and I would be equally as happy and honored to meet a few quality friends, playmates or naughty trouble-makers as I would be in finding that "one".
Additional notes:
I am single, never married and without kids. I have a career that doesnt involve a government *program* check, a 401k, investments and stabilty that I have and do work hard for and while I am not exactly where I want to be financially I do at least have a plan that will get me there at least 20 years after I am dead and gone.
I am short and have a hairy chest for those who feel these aspects to be important in your decision to contact me. But.... I do also own a few razors and shaving cream and I have been known to find good deals on shoes with extra thick soles. I am also quite adept at finding elevated ground such as steps or curbs or my very own tippy toes.... Just sayin'
My "likes" list is completely filled out and accurate in stating either activities that I have been involved in or those that are of interest to me. If you dont see something listed or answered please do feel free to ask!
OK. Thats it. Hope to hear from YOU!
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