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About Lonesouls
After my release a few weeks ago, I am tentatively looking for an older, experienced online male Dominant to talk to. Im still feeling a little sensitive after my release, so Im not looking to enter into submission just yet - even though I accept that I will know when I meet the right Dom for me, that idea will go out of the window and I will feel the need to submit to Him.
Though my account lists me as a switch, I am not currently looking for a sub of my own since I havent fully recovered from the experience of owning my last little girl yet.
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Should a submissive really have a way to end a scene?
Reading a bio here, I came across a concept that seemed to suggest to me that safe words aren't entirely a good idea within a dynamic because they give the submissive the power to end a scene with a single word.
If I'm honest, I don't think that the problem lies with safe words or even the fact that the submissive also has a way to end a scene with a single word. I think that the problem lies more in ineffective training of the submissive.
The reason for that is because I can count on one hand the number of times that I have ended a scene in the past two years and they have all been ended for genuine reasons as opposed to "I don't like where this is heading, so I'm going to safe word out". I would reasonably expect to find myself punished for doing that since I am going against my Master's will for no good reason. I know exactly when it is appropriate to safe word out of a scene and I accept full responsibility to Master each and every time that I do it. If asked, I will gladly account for my actions to Him and ultimately accept His punishment if He feels that I was unjust.
Any submissive who doesn't accept full responsibility for safe wording out is usually doing so because of poor communication between themselves and the Dominant - which is an issue that needs to be addressed before any future scenes occur so that each side knows what is expected of them and what is triggering the use of the safe word scenario. |
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Trying to figure out why so many people find it necessary to whip out their boy/girl junk and publicly post it on here??? Not cool... and anyone who feels the need to do so is neither the right Dom or sub for me. I'd much rather be wowed by the content of your mind first!!! |
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Fuck, this hurts.
Turns out that i can take a lot of things... but not a week of no contact so soon after a two day punishment because i broke my rules after another week of no contact.
This is killing me - and You have no idea how many times i've wondered if i have enough meds to put myself out of my misery. |
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Well, Master is busy again... so, I'm back here thinking about how much it sucks to get some news - and the only one who you want to share it with is busy. I don't even want to tell anyone else about it. |
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