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	Revised Fri 12Jul13 ~ Seeking Intelligent, Mature, & Strict but Caring - Master Puppeteer ~ While I am Un-collared, I consider this to be a public forum & therefore have the right to exercise my thoughts & opinions. Thank you. ~~~ * I seek Quality - Not quantity... The LTR that I seek is One on One - Only. This means that if you are attached and/or feel the need to eventually have more than one sub or slave at any time in the future, - or - if you are wanting to bring others into the relationship now or in the future - then please pass me by because I am not the one for you. I am monogamous Only & seek the Same. * I am Not interested in a Cyber relationship. So now if you are interested in learning more about me, please read on. :) ~~~ my "Resume" *my Personality:* Kind, Fair, Honest, Sincere, Open-minded, Curious, Creative, Loyal, Trustworthy, Obedient, Considerate, Compassionate, Rational, Intelligent, Detail-Oriented, Pliable,Mature, Responsible. I also possess a willingness to learn & engage in personal change & challenges. ~~~ *my Experience:* Personal experience includes having engaged in various aspects of bdsm since 1992. I am willing to undergo further experience so that I will develop the ability to be more useful to You as well as to myself... I obey orders immediately & precisely, perform tasks as specified, & enjoy learning from the "Boss". I am D/D free, practice good personal hygiene, & I do not imbibe alcohol & seek the same. ~~~ *Ideal Dom:* seeking an Honest, Trustworthy, Rational, Intelligent, & Mature Male Dominant who has Lifestyle Experience. This Dom should be within the age ranges of 57 - 69 yrs old (willing to consider older - but *Not younger* than myself) Not interested in Switches or Bisexuals & seek Straight Only*. Your looks are not all that important but the following qualities are very important to me: Intelligence, lifestyle experience, good personal hygiene, being D/D free, honesty, & the ability to keep an ongoing dialogue of open communication are. ~~~ I do seek an RT LTR although that doesn't necessarily have to be 24/7 (see following Note). Note - there is something to be said about the "newness" when seeing each other after a brief period of time apart. I think all people need a little "down time" or personal space on occasion, although this doesn't negate the rules that the submissive has chosen to live by. ~~~ Qualities of "Boss" Preferred:* Un-Attached & Monogamous Male, Older & Mature, Stern but Fair, Strict but Rational, Disciplined but Compassionate, Intelligent, Detail-Oriented, Consistent, Open & Honest, & one who understands the importance of the psychological aspects within a bdsm relathionship as well as good communication. ~~~ *Position Sought:* The ideal position would offer the opportunity to continue practicing in a realm that I embrace - subservience, as well as provide mental stimulation, & room for personal growth... A safe place to relinquish control. ~~~ *Reward expected:* Guidance, Knowledge, Training & Care... ~~~ *Fringe benefits preferred:* tis better to give than to receive but... my masochistic side doesn't mind receiving at times... :) ~~~ *Implements enjoyed:* Flogger, rattan cane, leather slapper, leather belt/strap, wooden clothespins, clover clamps, cotton rope, blindfold. ~~~ *Piercings & Tattoos:* I have piercings & tattoos Above the waist. ~~~ (Although I'm akin to a puppet, I do have some limitations. I'm very open to many things including changes & challenges, but there are specific items which I am unable to participate in due to how they would impact my well being...) *Hard Limits:* Fisting, Asphyxiation, Whips, Animals, Kids, Scat, & Poly (or "Others" brought into the relationship). ~~~ *Vanilla Interests* (include but are not limited to): Electronics, mechanics, computers, math, music, jigsaw puzzles, culture, the country side of life, & other varied and eclectic interests. ~~~ I have a lot to offer to the Dom who is correct for me, & therefore am in no rush to find one who shares similar tastes & interests. ~~~ Final Note: if you consider contacting me & your profile has little to no info about you then please don't bother. ~~~ Thank you for taking the time to peruse my profile.

12/5/2013 8:24:29 PM

There have been some major family health issues occurring since the latter part of Oct 2013.

That is why I've rarely appeared and haven't had time to address current messages.

Will return once things have calmed down a bit.

Thanks for understanding.

6/25/2013 10:36:52 AM

Why would someone create a profile and not invest just a few minutes to share info on what they do & don't enjoy, as well as what they seek in a partner?

My thoughts are that if a person has no interest in investing a few minutes to share such info, then they apparently aren't going to invest much time or care in a relationship either.

"Empty" profiles remind me of how most vanilla relationships operate - one or both partners not willing to invest time and care in a relationship and that of course can leave one or both partners empty...

5/24/2013 7:54:52 PM

May 24, 2013 - Today I discovered that my age didn't update automatically so just took care of that discrepancy.

And it's time to take my life off hold. Still staying busy but mostly focusing and working on self improvement goals.

5/22/2013 11:19:45 PM

I haven't been here in a long time and thought I should do an update.

Planning to quit smoking by no later than June 1st 2013 and look forward to freedom from that.

It's been interesting to read some of the profiles from those who have experience in the lifestyle. Agree that many folks these days are pretenders. I think some of them read books about the lifestyle then suddenly think that makes them experienced. lol

I started in the lifestyle in 1992 which was approx. 5 years before ever going online.

Have stayed busy since last visiting here in 2010 and working on constructive things.

2/5/2010 1:25:05 AM

Currently I don't have the time to invest in a relationship due to pressing family matters & personal goals, both of which are requiring much more of my time than anticipated.
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I plan begin my search anew for a Dom sometime in 2011 which is when I hope to have time for a life once again.
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Thank you.

5/15/2008 10:59:47 AM

There have been a lot of changes since I created my profile and as soon as I get a chance I plan to update it hopefully by the end of May 2008.

Note that I no longer have plans to relocate to the St. Louis area at this time (nor anywhere else)

Will return soon with an update. Take care.

6/27/2007 8:35:43 AM

Unlike many people I've encountered on this site, I am not seeking just any warm body that comes along.

I know what is necessary in my life and I will remain content to be patient in my search for the Dom who is correct for me.

So please don't waste your time or mine by writing to me trying to convince me that you are what I seek - whenever you don't even meet with half (if any) of the criteria I seek.

I don't like to be rude but I don't have time to spend sending replies to someone who is way younger than what I seek, etc.

Thanks for understanding.

6/27/2007 8:09:07 AM

Note - I cannot consider relocating out of Missouri so please don't write to me asking me to consider doing so... thank you!

Well, it's mowing season once again. That as well as other tasks keeps me rather busy during the Summer and Fall.

Therefore there may be times when I am unable to respond in a timely manner due to time constraints, so your patience is very much appreciated during this time.

Have a good summer.

2/2/2007 4:11:34 PM

I have absolutely No interest in seeking or acquiring a Dom who is Younger than I am - No Exceptions, and I make no apologies for my taste in men.

That's my personal preference which will never change. So please, don't waste your time or mine in trying to convince me otherwise.

And to those "Doms" who have made rude comments to me about older males - that merely reflects your
immaturity. Tis only one of the many reasons I prefer Older Doms.

2/2/2007 4:06:21 PM

What makes you unique? What makes you different than all of the other Doms? To me --> No profile info on someone tells me that you must be basically the same as all the rest...

If you don't invest any time on your profile, then you probably don't invest much time in a sub or slave either...

I invested a great deal of time and effort in creating my profile so that you would know a lot about me in order to see if there are any similarities before choosing to make contact.

It ceases to amaze me at how many Doms have contacted me who want to know more, yet they never bothered to take the time or effort to share much if anything about themselves in their profile.

That would save so Very Much Time for Both parties if the profiles were used for the purpose they were intended...

12/3/2006 9:34:08 AM

Please Note: Currently I am staying very busy working toward putting my home on the market so that I can relocate to within 1 hour's drive or less to the St. Louis area - Only - And that will hopefully occur in the near future. So... I don't have an inordinate amount of time to sit at the pc - and therefore I respond as and when I can due to time constraints associated with all of the remodeling and repairs. This will change in the future once I have accomplished my goal... (Sorry - No time for IM's right now - IM is way too time consuming and not practical with my current schedule...)

Therefore I appreciate those who understand and are patient while awaiting a reply...

12/3/2006 9:30:48 AM

I spent a lot of time and thought in setting up my profile in order to ensure it would be informative. That way a potential Dom can learn something about me and also so that he can readily see and understand what I am looking for and what limits I have...

This saves both of us time should there not be any possibility of a good match...

Yes I may be a sub but I also have the right to make choices before I become involved with someone...

Funny thing is that there are many who will make contact and think they can sway me in what it is I am looking for... hmm... Yet, I still am Courteous enough to send a response and it's amazing how the Dom who contacted me doesn't have the courtesy to at least reply back with a thank you, etc...

The lifestyle is not a game to me and I do know what I am looking for and know that the correct Dom for me will emerge in the future.

12/3/2006 9:24:02 AM

It is amazing that so many people at this site never bother to put any or very little info in their profile so that someone can learn something about them. It's difficult to make an intelligent decision about someone if there is very limited info available in their profile... Openness and honesty are important, especially in the lifestyle...

11/26/2005 10:01:31 PM

If you treat a person as he is, he will remain as he is. If you treat him for what he could be, he will become what he could be. ~ Author Unknown

11/26/2005 10:01:10 PM

"Religious practice contains a number of sado-masochistic elements, from penance, confession and forgiveness, to servitude, abstinence and flagellation. The reason BDSM looks so much like a religious act is quite simply that it is a religious act." ~ J. Mikael Togneri in Spirituality In Slavehood

11/26/2005 10:00:05 PM

Loyalty means nothing unless it has at its heart the absolute principal of self-sacrifice. ~ Woodrow T. Wilson

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