You are a strong and independent woman. Fine, but you will know, or want to learn, how to behave differently with me.

You are a novice who feels that she has submissive tendencies but you are a bit hesitant about how to proceed. I understand, these are big steps you want to take and you need a sympathetic guide who will listen and help you progress at the pace you are comfortable with.

you are a sub already in a relationship but you are looking for more because your Dom told you to or your partner is vanilla and can't meet all your needs. That can be fun with or without the involvement of your partner. We all need to understand the part we play in any relationship and as long as we are comfortable in that role, then everyone is happy.

you are slave looking for your Master, you want to find The One. I've been there and it was wonderful, so I would dearly like to find a connection at that level again.

We are all on a journey of self-discovery, and we are all looking for the right travelling companion. The most important thing to me is not where you are on your journey, nor even where you eventually hope to go, it is that you are willing to make the journey and you want someone to travel with you. Thereafter it is a matter of chemistry. If the connection is made we will go wherever it is that we agree we want to go.