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Female Submissive, 34, atlanta, Georgia
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Female Submissive, 48, Seymour, Georgia
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Female Submissive, 26, Anytown USA, Ohio
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About LittleWraith
Well... I'm owned and collared and have been for more than a few years now…
I'm 45 - he's a bit older... and it would be fair to say we're not just soul mates but have been through so many tough times together that I honestly don't think anything could tear us apart any more... it's all tried and failed
We were pretty much lifestyle straight from the start... until we now run a company making collars and other personal bits for the world.
In the last few years I've become more and more disabled to the point where I'm now registered… it's a horrible step to think you're not really much use any more to the outside world… not to mention pretty useless at home too. I use a wheelchair to get out of the house... or have a scooter… and sometimes inside the house I can end up in bed for days with the pain so can't always get onto the computer for fun.
Unfortunately it has altered our dynamic quite a bit. As a sadist he feels that I'm in so much pain on a day to day basis that when i do have a good day and can move around he doesn't want to cause any more. He doesn't know when he's hurt me or the pain is from the illnesses… and he's not in control of the pain any more... which pretty much kills the frission of the situation. He's still a sadist though :-)
Also it's very hard to be a slave when your Master is running around looking after you when you're ill!
It's even affected the way I dress... he used to love seeing me in rubber and leather but now likes to see me in clothes that make me look 'safe' ... and when i say safe I mean not in pain and I'm looked after. An example of this is I used to sleep naked... now I wear pink pjs. Life is odd
He still actually likes rubber and leather but the side effects of me being ill mean I can't even wear it any more... not good
I've had to have my piercings removed because I'm in hospital so much... and we've gone through enough collars where I've had to remove them for hospital stays and the locking parts instantly wore out. So he decided to make his own for me... and in a weird sort of way it's actually turned into a business from it
So we now make locking collars, cuffs, slave tags and fetters for other people and I'm in charge of the admin and artwork side... which I love doing. Chatting to people on email about their orders is a way of me socialising too so it’s not just an occupation… it’s something I love doing. Our website is http://www.wyredslave.com/ and he's been been doing this for a few of years now and we have a lot of friends we've met through this who keep recommending us.
Because we think these items have the same importance as wedding rings, we put a lot of effort in making sure everything is perfect… even down to finding random artwork to have the perfect engraving :)
And I have to say it's awesome to actually have your collar made by your master for you :)
But enough of that before it starts to look like an advert for Wyred… when this is more for me, if that makes sense… although if you do want to ask questions about products I’m more than happy to chat away about that too :)
I would love to meet people who have had their dynamic changed through ill health... how do you get that back when you've been through so much?
I also have a pretty black sense of humour... we have two adult kids and house full of pets. If you’d like to know any more than that just ask away! - I can waffle for England :)
Oh... and I might just have a coffee fixation! :)
A slight aside -
TREACLE DAYS :)
A deion we use to denote when I'm having a bad day is Treacle Day... when the pain makes you feel like you're walking through treacle. In a similar way Toffee Days are when the treacle has set!
I mentioned this as I’ve have had people commenting on how much nicer it is to say than 'bad pain day' ... so I'm on a mission to make this a recognised saying :)
And in that vein... I hope all your days are Runny Honey ones
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