littlegriffin

It is not okay to ignore a person listed hard limits. Doing so just shows you are someone who can not be trusted. Why is this such a hard thing for people to understand.

I love this time of year. My whole house sparkles with lights, there are tons of sweet smells from baking cookies and all the seasonal candles I have lit. I have all of my Christmas Stuffies out all around the house. I am all smiles and giggles. 

I have been a really good girl, so I know Santa is going to bring me lots of goodies. I get extra special cuddles and just the other night Daddy read me Good Night Moon. Yep I am happy.

Our Christmas tree is all decorated, my stocking is hung, and the house feels like Christmas. I made the first batch of Christmas cookies last night, and will be making more tonight. I love this time of year. 

I hope it snows so I can build a snowman to guard my snow fort. 

I have not been able to sleep very well for the last few days, and have been going to bed after Daddy. Last night I went to bed and Daddy was cuddled up with my two stuffies. It took me forever to get them away from him so that I could go to sleep. :) It was so cute.

I really hate being sick, but thankfully Daddy is taking good care of me. I sure hope that Teddy does not catch what ever it is that I have. He has to protect me from the closet monster.

Rules that should be followed before contacting anyone on any site:

1. Read the full profile, if you encounter a word you do not understand, use the dictionary to look it up or google it.

2. Always be respectful of the boundaries set in the profile, even if you do not like, agree with them, or they count you out. Never tell someone that their boundaries are bad, stupid, or anything negative.

3. Make sure they are looking for what you are seeking, respect if they are not.

4. Do not assume they are here to fulfill your fetish, do not assume that they are here to fulfill you need for sex.

6. People are not objects do not treat them as such.

7. Be respectful and approach someone on the internet the same way you would a person in real life. Just because they are sitting in another place does not make bad manners ok.

8. Use written communication skills. Your written word is one of the biggest things a person has on the internet to form a first impression.

9. Re read a profile until you understand it.

10 READ THE FULL PROFILE

Ok, people, please for the love of all that is good in the world, if you are going to insult someone, do it in a manner that does not leave you sounding and looking like a complete idiot. I promise a insult in text speak, with all kinds of grammar errors, only shows us just how stupid you really are.

I wish the weather would make up it's mind. Today it is going to be about 60 degrees F. and stormy, tomorrow and Monday it is going to be in the mid 40s and a huge chance of snow. I am going to wind up sick, and I don't want to be sick.

It is the first day of spring and I get to plant flowers and play in the dirt.

I have gotten a few responses to my last journal entry, and now I feel the need to clarify some things.

A. Sending me a message to tel me that the reason I can not meet anybody is because of my age limit is neither original or wanted. I do not want to meet anyone that is over my age limit, so not changing that is not hindering me in any way.

B. I am submissive to my Daddy/Master, not you, and I never will be submissive to you. I am not here looking for some wanna be twu dom to come and sweep me away, this is not going to happen and just makes you look like an ass.

C. I am sick of people telling me that I have anger issues just because they do something wrong and I call them out on it. I have what I am looking for here, I have my boundaries and limits, if you do not respect that and contact me with your drivel, I get to call you out on it. If you do not like them, then the best thing for you to do is continue on your search, for I am obviously not the person you are looking for.

D. I am FAT. Yea I know, and you know what, I love me just the way I am. So your thoughts on this subject will do nothing except make you look even smaller then you already have made yourself look. Random people on the internet who think they need to judge and belittle me, well, you have already failed. I do not care what strangers think about me.

E. If you are going to call me stupid, please do not wring "u r stupid" U and R are not words, they are letters and are suppose to be used as part of a word, not as a stand alone thing that is suppose to represent some word. If you are not smart enough or to lazy to write out a proper insult, why do it? Once again, you only make yourself look smaller then you already have proven yourself to be.

I have known about collar me for years, and I am sad to say that in all this time I have only meet a very small hand full of interesting person here.

Everyone I come into contact with has been a carbon copy of the last. It's the same conversation each time. I really wish there were less boring people here. I like uniqueness, I like someone that can have a conversation.

Yet another random person I have never spoken to felt the need to send me a one word insult today. I really wish these small people could at least use what tiny bit of brains they do have to at least amuse me and come up with something better the bitch. It would very much be a good thing to get something original, but all the asshats on this site seems to use the same insults.

I had to go to the Dentist today for a cleaning. I am so scared of the Dentist, but Daddy said I had to go, so I did. When he got home from work today he took extra time to cuddle me and that made me feel better.

I don't think I will ever understand some people's need to be mean. I am a BBW. I love my body, I love myself, and nothing anyone says is going to change that. I do not understand why some people feel the need to send me a message just to tell me I am fat. Really, I am so glad someone needed to point that out to me, I would have never known if they had not.

I know that big girls is not everyone's cup of tea, but there are lots of people out there that is fine with us.

I really do have to wonder what is so wrong with the people's lives who feel the need to send a message just to put someone down. I see nothing good coming out of it for anyone involved, and it really is sad that they think some random stranger who means nothing to me should have some kind of say in regards to how I few myself or how the world should view me.

If you have a problem with the way someone looks, then just move on. It only shows how insecure and little you are to send the mean messages.

Also just because I am a BBW, it does not mean I am disparate for attention or sex.

Today is my birthday and I go

1. Frankenweenie hat

2. Two new video games

3. Two new books

4. New Corset

5. Money

6. I do not have to do anything I don't want to do today, including chores.

Today is Pan's day. It is one of my favorite days of the year, but all I want to do is crawl back in the bed and snuggle with my teddy while sleeping.

My daddy loves me. He got me a new awesome phone and a new laptop so that I no longer have to fix my old broken one all the time. Yesterday was our four year anniversary, and he ordered me a new awesome collar.

Once upon a time there was a man name Sir Stupid. He felt the need to contact a collared and married little girl. When the little girl followed her daddies rules and told him to go away and that she was not interested, the mean old man started calling the little girl bad names like, fat, cunt, and dumb.

These names did not hurt the little girl, because her daddy made sure that every day she knew how loved and wanted she was. This names only amused the little girl because while she was little she was still mature enough to know that name calling is only done in order to try to make the bad person feel better. The little girl also found it very funny that the bad man felt the need to call her dumb when he was the one who sent the inappropriate message to the little girl.

The story ends with the little girl telling her daddy about all of this and showing him the messages. Then her daddy took her into his arms and cuddled her while reading to her. The little girl lived happily ever after, loved and cherished, while the mean old man died forever alone.

I love it when I reject someone and they feel the need to put me down. These so called men, more like little boys, think that by calling me names it somehow is suppose to hurt my feelings. Of course the way I see it, this dumb fat cunt, just rejected your ass. What does that really say about you?

I hate it when people feel the need to contact me just to say something mean or disrespectful. I may be a babygirl/submissive, but that does not make me yours. I follow my daddy's rules above all others. If you don't like that, then stay away. If you can't be respectful, then I want nothing to do with you.

The insults meant to hurt me to make yourself feel better, just shows how little of a person you really are. I don't have time for it, and  your words mean nothing to me. I am loved and cherished by the one person in the world who matters to me.

This year, I promise to make more room for Daddy in the bed and try to sleep with less stuffed friends, try being the most important word. I will color more, play more, and be a good girl all year. Like always..........most of the time..........ok,ok, more seconds then not.

Santa came to my house. He loved my cookies and milk so much he left a thank you note.

And yet another I can't believe I need to address this.

I have my limits stated clearing on my page. If you do not like them, that is your  issue and not mine. That people will call themselves "Master" and tell me that my limit is a shame, is horrible.  Then to tell me that I am childish and not a good representation of the lifestyle because I will point out that no one should call someone's limit a shame, just shows how little control these people have over their own emotions.

People grow up. If you don't like someone limit, do not send them a message telling them it is wrong, and completely dismissing it, and then get all upset and your feelings hurt because it is not a well received message.  Not respecting someone's limits is really a bad representation of someone in this lifestyle. A "Master" should know that.

I find it kinda amusing that I need to address this, but I have got three messages now that pertains to the topic of this entry.

Just because you view my profile does not mean that I need to contact you and thank you for it. I did not ask you to view my profile every day for a week, cyber stalker much. I did not ask for you to give me your time or attention, and you are not entitled to a thank you note just because you do this. I am not going to send you a message just because you looked at my profile.

If you keep looking at my profile because you are trying to get my attention, then send me a message as long as you HAVE read my profile, and are capable of respecting my boundaries and being respectful.

My Santa List:

1. A new paddle, since the last one broke on my but.

2. Nipple Clamps, because I wants them.

3. Handmade coloring book,because they are much more fun then the ones from the store.

4. More duck tape, just because I want it in pink.

5. New bows for my hair, all of mine have been eaten by the closet monster.

6. New house slippers, my old ones wore out.

7. Rope, really do I need to say more.

8. A special fun for me surprise toy.

That is all for now. I am sure I will think of more later.

My word of the day is IDIOT. So my profile says that I am here looking for friends. That is it. Not looking to be anyone's online get your freak on buddy, not looking to play in real life either, not looking for hook ups, and yet still people feel the need to ask. I think I shall crawl in a corner and cry for the loss of mankind's ability to use their brains.

I have been on this site with this profile for a few days already, and I am already having problems with people not reading. SIGH...how can you expect to have control over someone when you can't even control yourself.

Daddy said that I have been such a good girl that if I remember to set out cookies and milk Santa will come see me.