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lilvelvetviolet

lilVenere
Female Submissive, 32
lilvera
Female Submissive, 32, sterling heights, Michigan
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Male Submissive, 28, Las Vegas, Nevada
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i am not looking for anything more than to make friends as i have had a few DsMs relationships that crashed and burned so i am taking a lil bit of time off from relationships but i am not looking for play partners either.
Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends!!!
There are days it doesn't pay to wake up. 

Hating life right now :(
i have lost too many people to cancer i heard yesterday that my x-hubbies best friend passed away from stage 4 lung cancer. i lost my sister just after the first of the year to cancer and about 9 years ago my mom and hubby #2 and 6 years ago my x-mil to it also along with a young man from my church who was way to young at 22. 
Happy Memorial Day!!!



Be safe! i want to thank any and everyone who has served for my freedoms especially those who gave their lives for it!!!
was told yesterday that i need to change who i am as being me i will never find a Dom ... well if i change who i am then i am being dishonest to myself and You ... i am sorry i can not have casual play or sex ... i tried casual sex once hated myself for months and i never heard from him again ... i have to be emotionally engaged to have any kind of intimate relationship with anyone and how more intimate can one get but to submit to the One???? for me there isn't 
well it is mothers day and i miss mine something terrible ... no this has nothing to do with why we are all here but it is a part of me ... this is the 6th passing of this day without you in the world but i know you are up in heaven looking down and watching all i do and attempt to do in life ... i dream about her and have even woken up in tears ... they say it gets easier as time passes by but there is still that hole in my heart and soul ... i don't spend every day grieving anymore but a smell or a dish or a story brings her to mind and when i need her advise i do 'talk' to her no she doesn't answer but i know she is listening and i feel better afterwards .. love and miss you mom!
a girl need to follow her instincts when it comes to choosing a partner ... if a girl can't be selective and picky and choosy in her Dom then she is nothing but a door mat and that i am not ... if that is all you want keep looking 
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