i am looking for SSC. That is loving, caring,and communicates. Is trustworthy. Not looking for someone that is saying that they are Dominate but can show they are in real time and real life. This may sound harsh but i am real and not some wannabee or dumb sub/slave. i have come across too many that say they can do then back out. They are either not true or don't know what the lifestyle is about. i am not saying i know all; i have alot to learn and want to explore it with an intelligent adult Dominate. Thank You. update on lilone i am going to be collared at the end of July. thank You to all i have chatted with, i wish You all well and hope You find What You are looking for. God Bless A/all.