I am new to this, and I am interested in exploring the lifestyle, just looking for friends and chat.
Looking for a patient one to guide me. To help me explore myself and new experiences. I am into mild pain spanking lite biting, and being tied up, and at someones mercy. I am also curios about being the one in control as well someone to pamper me.

I am not into humiliation and or degradation. If your seek someone to demoralize and or humiliate I am not the one for you. I am sorry. I am not a door mat, and I am not worthless, and will not let someone make me feel that I am. I live a vanilla lifestyle but have a darker side I would like to explore. If you are the one willing to guide me let me know.

I feel I Must add this because it has. Come to be an issue in some cases. I am a Widow and have 2 children so discretion is a must for me. Many see the fact that I am a mother as a turn off. Mother I may be yes, But I still wish to explore. As said discretion is a must. I do not and will not expose them to this. But that does not make things impossible.

And a note to those who have sent messages. Please forgive the lack of response. My former system aloud me to join this sight but did not give me full access. I have since upgraded to a laptop, and I am finally able to access my messages. So I will try to get back to you all one way or another. Again I am sorry I was not ignoring any of you.