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	I am new to the world of BDSM. Gaining information, as I explore this wonderful lifestyle, has become a passion as I seek to find out what it takes to become a Domina. I once believed myself to follow the path of a submissive; however, recently I have found that I am a switch. I would like to find someone willing to discuss ideas with me as well as possibly meet in the future.

2/5/2006 9:26:00 PM

Thanks to a post that I made about anal play I received some very helpful information. I was concerned that a male would not necessarily enjoy anal play as much as a woman. Seeing as I can only relate to the female’s response I wanted to find out what it felt like for a man. I got some great information on how it felt as well as how to go about preparing a partner. I love online groups that are willing to share information like that.

2/3/2006 10:07:49 AM

I have done some experimenting lately with ice and wax play together. It was extremely fun. I got a tip about pouring the wax over the ice to hold the ice in place while it melts. I bought a large parafin bath so that means plenty of hot and handy wax ready for pouring. Fireplay is next on the list. On another note thanks to a friend of mine I have developed a foot fetish. Meaning people play with my feet and I melt. So that will have to go onto my list of qualifications: "Must love to play with feet." It has a nice ring to it in my mind. An odd thing happened recently I began talking to an ex-boyfriend of mine. While we were dating I was a straight out sub; however, I had no concept of how to tell him that and he wasn't getting the clues I was dropping. In fact at the time he wasn't into the lifestyle. We had a nasty falling out and I just recently decided to try and talk to him (I being the one who wanted no contact). Well it turns out that he has become quite the Dom. While I have grown from sub to switch. Funny how things turn out.

10/9/2004 12:01:23 AM

So far I am extremely glad that I have found this website. I have spoken with several people who are willing to talk to me as if I were an intelligent being instead of an idiot. In the past I found that if you were a beginner people just didn't want to take the time to talk to you. In most cases you have to start somewhere and here has become a great place to start. One thing that seems to be constantly asked is; "What would you wear . . .” I have been giving that some thought . . . time to go shopping I think.

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