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The most important things in my life are my God and my family. I am a single guy who knows what it means to be in love and what it means to lose that love. I believe that love is an action word and we know it when we see it. I know it when I see it. I have never been married, though I would like to have a wife and children some day. I like the idea of the house with the white picket fence as well as the idea of traveling the world on a sail boat. I imagine my life will fall somewhere in between. I am quite easy going. I don't stress out about much. You'll find that I'm more apt to speak calmly in an argument that yell and scream (though I don't mind putting you in the corner until you calm down). I like to go to baseball games and explore new cities. I like to go for hours-long drives and get lost. I like fireworks and thunderstorms.
I am looking for a Christian woman who is strong in her faith. I want us to compliment each others lives, not complicate. She is kind and likes the idea of taking care of her man. She is easy to get along with and wants to feel safe in my arms. She can hold her own in a conversation and knows when to speak up if I'm heading down a bad path in my life. She loves the kink and knows that it is a part of our lives, not the thing that defines us. My faith defines me.
11/13/2011 4:59:52 AM

I believe that God stopped creating, after he'd made woman, for a reason.  I am honored that his most beautiful creation is a gift to me.  I want to love and cherish her.  Those are verbs, not feelings.  If she doesn't feel loved and cherished, then I'm not doing it right.  I need to speak her language.  If it takes flowers, so be it.  If it takes time together, so be it.  If it takes a spanking, bondage, passionate kissing, words of encouragement, etc., so be it.  If I am loving her and cherishing her the way she perceives love and affection, she'll know my motives.  Likewise, I want to be respected and honored (that's how men work).   We can work together to understand one another and become the proper lover one another.

11/12/2011 6:43:23 AM

I'm not searching for blind obedience.  I want to find a woman who chooses to love me and will offer her service and obedience to me in that love.

AllyValentine
 
 Age: 29
 Portland, Oregon