I believe that God stopped creating, after he'd made woman, for a reason. I am honored that his most beautiful creation is a gift to me. I want to love and cherish her. Those are verbs, not feelings. If she doesn't feel loved and cherished, then I'm not doing it right. I need to speak her language. If it takes flowers, so be it. If it takes time together, so be it. If it takes a spanking, bondage, passionate kissing, words of encouragement, etc., so be it. If I am loving her and cherishing her the way she perceives love and affection, she'll know my motives. Likewise, I want to be respected and honored (that's how men work). We can work together to understand one another and become the proper lover one another. |