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What does Larvatus Prodeo mean?
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My profile makes no apologies for comprising chiefly of a detailed account of my sexual interests and triggers. I have very specific fetish interests which come first, the BDSM is the place where I go to when I am dressed up. Just because it stems from a stylized and ritualized persona does not mean I am not very good at it and not subtle and inventive in action. A lot of different possibilities exist after certain strange and extreme conditions have been met. I respect other peoples passion for labels in their yearning for clarity but I do not choose to write prescriptions for relationship dynamics.
I am extremely strict and demanding as a fetish top, my tastes are strongly attractive to a select few, leave many cold and are doubtless some peoples' worst nightmare. However, I am always happy to make contacts and new friends on the worldwide fetish and BDSM scene. I am only too aware of the maxim that life is what happens while you were making other plans.
Experienced, intelligent, tall, dominant fetishist interested in working with fetish people (whether you think of yourselves as models or not) and other alternative scene people for fetish photography projects. Also seeking co-Dommes, slaves, submissives, bottoms, henchwomen, pets, dolls, toys, cumpuppets... play partners and others. On the London scene for over ten years, I would be happy to arrange to meet up at any of the monthly and seasonal fetish clubs where I am a regular photographer of the local fetish scene. When I am not visiting the US, or hiding in the Cotswolds, I live in North London and have the occasional use of a small dungeon space at reasonable notice in east London. If you like display or performing in front of others I'd be happy to play in public (ie: do scenes at clubs).
Large collection of instruments of chastisement, restraints, masks, hoods, rubber, leather and PVC etc in many sizes, also more conventional clothing that appeals; for example I have a particular fetish for women in shirts or blouses with the collar open and turned up, therefore that would be a permanent aspect of your dress when with me. My main extreme fetish is masks and hoods. Highly unreasonably (unless of course the thought makes you wet), I insist on keeping my subs/slaves/pets/dolls/toys/cumpuppets permanently masked and in fetishistic attire at all times whether we are playing in private or at a club, or travelling in between. The same situation applies to myself and would necessarily have to appeal to a dominant, switch or alpha sub partner. If you were with me in a scene context you would already or wish to embrace the wearing a hood or full discipline helmet and/or reasonably severe mask of some description as part of your public and private sexual persona.
I enjoy placing my subs/slaves/pets/dolls/toys/cumpuppets in extremely stringent bondage, predicament bondage and/or suspension before teasing, torturing and bringing them off (again and again). I love cages, pillories and gyno chairs. I will not stand for 'topping from the bottom', I am not very compatible with 'bratty' subs or those who like to provoke (and 'play')their Masters. If I want to punish you I'll cancel a date. If I flog, whip or cane you its because it pleases me to do so, whether to admire your bravery and stoicism or luxuriate in your weeping and snivelling, or just to season with pain something otherwise extremely pleasant. I enjoy breast torture and anal play, including enemas. I believe in training gently and playing hard. With the right person in non-casual circumstances I am quite strongly attracted to some more extreme areas which quite reasonably feature on a sizeable chunk of hard-limit lists but they are not core essential activities for me. I find breath play (rebreather bags, headbagging and nooseplay exciting (I am completely confident that I remain within safe sane limits, naturally). Also the full gamut of water sports. Blood play is a more ho-hum, needle play OK, cutting with scalpels is not, knifeplay does not really float my boat, (although I love knives). Touching shit or worse is right out (although if you were my rubber puppy girl making you crap on some newspapers might amuse)... as is eating anything nasty or dangerous. Do expect to be plugged, front and rear, while waiting on me hand and foot as a hobbled, shackled, hooded, gagged maid or slavegirl. I would require you to be able to relax and even sleep in bizarre restrictive fetish outfits. I enjoy full rubber enclosure, both for myself and slaves and also placing my slaves in body bags and inflatables to meditate or sleep. If you already identify as a rubber fetishist you will be well provided for. If not you may come around sooner than you think. I also have strong fetishes for leather, pvc and satin etc. so I can accommodate true latex allergy sufferers. The kinds of things outlined here are not a program of activities for a first date, but they remain non-negotiable objectives. If they are not already things that turn you on, you had better be pretty open minded. Trying and not liking a couple of things out of many is very unlikely to be a deal breaker.
I prefer prolonged scenes (it may take a over an hour to get ready). I have no need for mind games or place much importance on verbal roleplay, since the fetish side of the activities are intense enough on their own to take us into a different space. While playing, both Master/Mistress & slaves are always completely masked in hoods that cover the entire head. You may expect to be stringently corseted (permanently if that is your aspiration) and will be expected to be able to wear extreme heels. If not already insanely turned by such things you must be prepared to be trained to tolerate and enjoy (not just endure) multiple hoods, gags and heavy/full/immobile restraint for reasonable (ie long) periods and mobile bondage (ankle cuffs, hand cuffs, collar and leash) and lighter weight hoods & masks for extended (ie extremely long) periods. You will sometimes be obliged to wear several layers of rubber for many hours. If the way you look in extreme fetish attire is not exciting for you, if you do not need a few mirrors in the play space then we are probably not on the same wavelength.
Provided you adore full latex enclosure, hoods and extreme bondage but for example cannot stand pain or other types of activities mentioned I could of course, respect your limits within our relationship... While a deep understanding and bond most easily develops when two people play intensively together and given that a single fetish responsive partner can easily absorb all my attention, I particularly enjoy scenes with multiple partners and shifting power dynamics. Three people can fuck a sub better than one. Although I am a straight top that does not strictly dictate what activities I will participate in, especially in non-explicitly sexual roles. I just don't want to be around any negative energy.
As a potential partner, I am looking for a woman who is above all intelligent and knows her own mind. Who is at least comfortable with her sexuality, whether or not she feels self-confident and fulfilled in every other way. Who can enjoy quiet moments without being bored. Who can enjoy being exhibitionistic without being attention seeking. Who is willing to learn and to share. And finds it straightforward to give and accept respect. Whether this is a coincidence or not, most of my most successful relationships have been with women who were both bi and switched, but I have had just as much fun with straight submissives in my time. I would be willing to travel to spend time with someone special (I have travelled across the Atlantic more than once to do a scene). I find very tall and/or well built women intoxicating, but I have been totally in love with very small women in my time, and overwhelmingly attracted to women of all physical types. A strong interest in the arts would a bonus but obviously an extremely bizarre and twisted sexual fantasy life that meshes with mine remains a fundemental prerequisite.
Tell me what 'Larvatus Prodeo' means and where the phrase ultimately originated and I'll be seriously impressed, but it's not a requirement.
Did you actually read this, through to the end? Reader I salute you...
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They say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, but I can do just fine without any flattery thank you very much.
Less than a week ago a person who presents himself as a 27 year old dominant male joined this site and on his first day viewed my profile. He liked what I wrote in my profile so much that he simply copied the whole of what I have in the profile above into his own profile, following an introductory paragraph of his own devising.
What I put in my profile is extremely personal and specific to me and this attempt to appropriate my entire persona, tastes, and mode of self-expression by a quick bit of copying and pasting is just beneath contempt.
Collarme Support have left his profile in place, but have now deleted everything in the text of his profile ? his intro and the other 95% plagiarised from what you see above. If he returns to my profile for another spot of copying and pasting (and reads this), his account will again be brought to the attention of the Support Team, and this time he will be named and shamed, in this journal and to all my friends and correspondents here on this site.
You have been given another chance to express your own personality and wants in your own words pal, I suggest you be grateful for that and get on with it. |
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Very proud owner of MaskedMadeline, except that she owns a piece of my heart too... Dammit |
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