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It seems that some men around here think that submissive is a synonymous of stupidity. I hate being this aggresive but I needed to state it.

"To fall in love is to create a religion that has a fallible god."

Jorge Luis Borges

So deep understanding that all men are frail and vulnerable and that that needs to be accepted is comforting, humbling and essencial.

“Utopia lies at the horizon.
When I draw nearer by two steps,
it retreats two steps.
If I proceed ten steps forward, it
swiftly slips ten steps ahead.
No matter how far I go, I can never reach it.
What, then, is the purpose of utopia?
It is to cause us to advance.”

Eduardo Galeano (Uruguayan writer)

Its rainny AGAIN and it will be up until I fly to Edmonton. A bit sad about leaving my country one more time but I know I will be just fine. I had to change my profile after discovering that a DOM mentor is not the right way to express what I need. This is better: LOOKING FOR FRIENDS ONLY TO SHARE THOUGHTS (not only BDSM) AND TO LEARN FROM OTHERS. SUBMISSIVE LADIES ARE WONDERFUL FRIENDS TO HAVE AROUND .

Still I appreciate my DOM/ES friends, so loving and wise, as well as the subs that are helping me (and probably others) in this journey.

Its rainny AGAIN and it will be up until I fly to Edmonton. A bit sad about leaving my country one more time but I know I will be just fine. I had to change my profile after discovering that a DOM mentor is not the right way to express what I need. This is better: LOOKING FOR FRIENDS ONLY TO SHARE THOUGHTS (not only BDSM) AND TO LEARN FROM OTHERS. SUBMISSIVE LADIES ARE WONDERFUL FRIENDS TO HAVE AROUND .

Still I appreciate my DOM/ES friends, so loving and wise, as well as the subs that are helping me (and probably others) in this journey.

“Utopia lies at the horizon.
When I draw nearer by two steps,
it retreats two steps.
If I proceed ten steps forward, it
swiftly slips ten steps ahead.
No matter how far I go, I can never reach it.
What, then, is the purpose of utopia?
It is to cause us to advance.”

Eduardo Galeano (Uruguayan writer)

Sunny day in my city, not that sunny inside but still willing to reflect some needed light.Have been reading and learning from you. Discovering that I would, if I could, split BDSM into BD and/or SM. I have been looking at some extreme pictures that dont turn me on but the opposite. Because of that I dont know whether I belong here but yet BD and the D/s dynamic are quite appealing to me.  I am loving the exploratory jouney (taking place in my mind) and I feel very very proud to be getting to know wonderful and brave doms and subs who live their lives just the way they want to. To me that itself is a priviledge and I d like to THANK YOU all of the smart and respectful people who have been enriching me by answering my endless silly beginner questions.

I would love meeting real submissive with a lot of experience to instruct by sharing their experience. Thats what i mean by mentor, not a Dom. That will come later.

After one evening spent in the website exploring it and doing some more reading in a different website that one master suggested, I came to realise that the best path for me is a more strategic one. That is to keep reading, going to gatherings (once Im in Edmonton, Im not there yet but I ll be in three weeks), getting a MENTOR if that is possible.

I might be romantic but I believe in the spark that happens in real life and, in order to be willing and eager to turn power into somebody else I need to improve myself first (becoming more knowledgeable) and meet persons in real time.

With that said, Im open for friendship and getting to know people here, it has been refreshing so far and enlighting to receive emails and to go through fourms, etc.