LadyWildCurls

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I thought I would write something in this journal thingy here (though I usually write in the journal in my profile). It seems that a lot of men here write a lot about how their potential sub or slave should behave, or if they write you they go straight to the kinky matter. Well, I understand this is an adult website and we are all looking for someone that shares our dark desires. But I would like to emphasize here that I am looking for a long term love relationship foremost, with a vanilla covering (which means it includes all that cute crap like cuddling, sharing interests like going to the movies and cooking and other banal things) with a creamy delicious dark chocolate filling. I have a rich inner world and a big imagination (a very perverted imagination mind you) but I really would like it if any potential Doms out there get to know me as a person first and share my kinky and non-kinky interests with me. I don't like to talk about overtly sexual things with people I don't know because I would rather get a feel for what kind of human being the person I might get involved with is first. Because, my dearies, I see myself as a human being and an individual first and foremost, as a woman second and as a sub third. And as such I seek a connection that goes well beyond play and scenes, I seek a spiritual, romantic, friendly and passionate relationship, and I want someone I can love for who they are (all of their sides) and who in turn loves all sides of me (my geeky-kinky-quirky-funny-passionate-vulnerable and strong sides).