LadyWinsome

As for my BDSM and D/s: I'm not heavily into protocol. I am not a sadist, but am more of a sensory, sensual Domina. I am very romantic and feminine. I enjoy both public and private play.

I want a "total package" -- a guy who can enter my nilla world as readily as my D/s and BDSM world, since my nilla world is very important to me also.

So, to start, I seek an articulate, personable charming male companion to escort me to play parties as well as to nilla events. If there is chemistry and compatibility, I would want a romantic and/or play relationship to follow.
Ideal Person:
Be real. Have a healthy outlook on life, yourself, the Scene. Finding intelligent, fun, happy, sane people in the Scene isn't as easy as one would imagine. You must love animals, have a sense of humor and know how to treat a Lady like a lady.
I'm ultimately hoping to find the right man for a long-term, committed relationship. So I do not wish to be approached by married men or men who are NOT emotionally free to enter into an exclusive relationship should there be mutual interest.

These are definite no no's -- I MEAN hard limits: no married men, no STDs, no problems with drinking or drug use. You should be employed or self-supporting, have transportation and not be an emotional train wreck. Don't objectify Fem Dommes -- be interested in me as a person and want a relationship with me OUTSIDE of doing BDSM and D/s. Be comfortable as a sub/slave/bottom and be able to attend play parties and munches with me. You don't necessarily have to be able to play publicly, but you need to be comfortable enough with this to go out to play parties or munches. If you're a newbie, don't be looking just to experiment with me -- I'm looking for a relationship, not to play wetnurse to every newbie who stumbles on the Scene just wanting a one or two time hot play session.

Long distance? Don't bother unless you live here. If you're going to move here, great, introduce yourself but don't expect me to write and be pen pals. I do this real time and in person.