My title is "Sir". I earned my title and I cherish it. Yes, I am a woman and I have never been a man. If you fuck it up with the term "Mistress" or "Ma'am", no worries, everyone gets one freebie. Respect is important to me.
I am a Sadist. Understand that if I ask "what do you mean you are a masochist?", I am asking because most people tell me they are masochist until I show them pics of my work, LOL. (I want to see you scream.....)
I am also a Domme. I want you to give me everything you have..... then I will demand more, LOL. I have protocols and expectations and I don't tolerate being "topped from the bottom". I am not a convertible, I don't switch.
I love to "mind fuck". My mind fucks are not designed to hurt the target or make them crack, but more to challenge them, push them and, of course, have fun. Make no mistake, I have the ability to "mind fuck" you into yesterday, BUT it is just a game, right?
Put D/s, pain and mind fuck together, and that is what I call a "Great Evening"........LOL.
I am also a mentor. I don't believe that I have all the answers to life or BDSM but I know what I know and I willing to admit to what I don't. If you are in the closet about your lifestyle and wish to discuss BDSM, no problem. Confidentiality is important to me if you want to learn (without looking like a complete idiot). Remember, we all started somewhere.
If you are interested in playing with me, understand that I believe that negotiations are necessary and limits set. Jumping into a scene with me today could be detrimental to your comfort tomorrow.
In my vanilla family, I am married to Sir Steve and have 3 children. We have been together forever because we work at our relationship everyday. Many have tried and all have failed to step between Sir and myself. My suggestion? Unless you have a deathwish, don't try.
In my leather family, I am the co-head of the family along with Sir Steve. I am proud to announce that restrik, my sub, has joined our family. I am very proud of all the members of my family and would do anything to protect them from harm.
Any threats to either of my families are taken very seriously and will be swiftly dealt with. It's better to be friends than enemies......LOL.
Other than that, I am a open, compassionate, intense person who loves to have fun. I can be your biggest bitch if you piss me off. Generally, I take myself WAY too seriously (Let's spell it together now......O.C.D., Yay) but I recognize your right not to listen to my shit, LOL. I love attending events and I believe BDSM is a REALTIME not an ONLINE pursuit. With respect, you can ask me anything.
Black & blue are the colours of the day and the number is 6. LOL
