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About LadyPandoraCP
Im considering changing my name to Lady Marmite which suits me well - you either love me or hate me and, to be honest, I really couldnt care which it is! The opinions of people Ive never met mean absolutely nothing to me nor do rumours and gossip - if theyre talking about me, theyre leaving someone else alone!
Ive been a lifestyle Domme for over 35 years and a Professional Disciplinarian for over 17 years. This is my lifestyle and I wont tolerate anyone who doesnt take it as seriously as I do. There are plenty of players and kinky shaggers out there, go waste their time - mine is too precious. Its either a need for you or its an interest ... and Im not interested if its not a need.
Sick to death of kinky shaggers, service tops, do-me subs, wannabes, users, liars and people who lack the balls to be who and what they really are.
Im not into fantasists I deliver what I say I will and I expect you to do the same. If you think its all about kinky foreplay, move on. If you believe your submission is a gift, move on! If you believe the sub has ultimate control or power, wrong again, move on! I am only interested in people who actually need to submit fully and who appreciate that this is a symbiotic state of being.
If you think Im going to tie you up and tease you, whether youre male or female, think again. This, to me, is NOT primarily about sex. If you dont understand why, then dont waste my time. I take complete control and my main interests are CP, DD, mind play, TPE, Ds and inflicting pain so, if this isnt your thing, please dont waste my time - you wont like me if you do! I dont play with safe words, so dont expect one. My play is RACK, not SSC.
If you approach me telling me how you can imagine yourself being tied to a piece of my kit and what would I do to you, expect to be ignored or, if you catch me on a bad day, told to fuck off! You know what Im offering, so what are you offering in return? Your submission? Wow! Ill take your submission if I want it ... if I consider you worthy, which is not very likely if you dont get it. Tell me exactly what you have to offer and why I should consider spending some of my time and energy on you. Its supposed to be symbiotic, remember?
Oh, and I only do relationships with genuine Alpha males - dont just expect me to believe that youre dominant, as youre probably just playing at it like most and I will know very quickly if that is the case!
Im here to chat with existing friends and hopefully to make new ones too. I value honesty and loyalty above most other things. If you approach me and I ever catch you out (which, as a trained psychologist I will), dont expect any mercy - you will be blocked immediately. You have been warned!
I am not currently looking to take on new slaves - I dont have the time and I already have two lifestyle subs. I am not interested in TVs, CDs, etc. Sorry, but at least Im not wasting your time! |
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I have been visiting this site again recently after a long break and I can feel another long break coming on very quickly!
I will no longer be responding to every message I receive as life really is too short and half of the site's members do not deserve such a courtesy.
If only people would bother to read my profile - and understand what it says - then life would be much easier.
I have only managed to find one person on here who is worth talking to; they took the time to read my profile in full prior to messaging me.
So let me make a few things clear...
As my profile clearly states, I am NOT looking for a sub or a slave, cuckold, live-in or visiting if and when they feel the urge or otherwise.
I do NOT wish to spend my valuable time and efforts training someone else's girl, particularly under someone else's instructions; nor do I desire casual sexual contact with them. Do NOT contact me just because I happen to have a place for play to occur; nor because I have plenty of kit and implements. Buy your own!
What part of I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A MAID, A SUB OR A SLAVE ARE YOU PEOPLE NOT UNDERSTANDING???
You wonder why it's so difficult to meet a Domme - the above are just a few reasons why this is the case.
If you cannot be bothered to - or are incapable of - penning an original (i.e. not copy & pasted) message to me using basic English instead of text speak, then do not bother to hit the send button. This, to me, is not a dating site, so I require more than "you're really hot" to pique my interest. If you can't put a salutation or sign off nicely, then don't expect a response.
Right, I'm climbing off my soapbox for now! No wonder so many people are failing to find what they need when we have to trawl through so much dross to find the rare genuine person.
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Goodness me! Three days, five 12 yard skips and we STILL haven't finished clearing everything! I had forgotten just how big my garden was - it's astonishing. But on Monday the new playroom installation begins ... more builders for me threaten with my cane if they bring muddy boots into my house - happy days! :D |
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I have a brand spanking new playroom being built the week after next - very exciting! :) |
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This is my first visit to the site in quite some time - I tend to regard this site as an afterthought due to the incredible number of very disturbed (and disturbing) people that seem to frequent it.
I wonder how long I will last this time? Surely there must be some intelligent, realistic, honest and rational people out there somewhere? |
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And people wonder why I rarely come on this site! OK, let's get this clear ... I am NOT looking to import a slave from another country - go get your green card equivalent another way. I am NOT interested in slaves in their 20s - I have children older than you! If you really want to get my attention, try writing about something other than what you like and what you want - I really couldn't care less!
I feel it's only polite to (eventually) answer every message I receive, but that opinion is wearing very thin. I am a very busy Lady and you should be grateful that I take the trouble to send you a reply, even if it IS "good luck in your search". If you get abusive because you can't stand rejection you will get an equally abusive response. If you keep on I will simply block you so you can go back to talking to yourself. |
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If one more person asks me to punish them I will not be responsible for my response! How can anyone look forward to a punishment? Don't you people comprehend what a punishment is? It indicates a failure by one or both parties.
What I do in a normal session is play. My subs absolutely dread a punishment and do everything they can to avoid one as it means they have let me down in some way; and this is something they never want to do. It is a cold, ritualistic affair and they most certainly do not derive any pleasure from it!
If you view a play session as a punishment then do not contact me - you clearly have no understanding of BDSM.
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If you send me a message and I open it to be faced with a willy picture, I will delete your message without reading it and block you. What is it with you men and your willies!!! |
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Safewords. I do not play with safewords - they rather defeat the object IMO. Yet some "subs" seem to think they can dictate that I MUST allow a safeword if I want to play with them! LOL Err, no thanks, I have plenty of people to play with.
Being a reasonable person, however, I've come up with a compromise ... I will allow a safeword so long as I get to nail you by the testicles to the door frame instead of tying you up.
No? I think it's a fair deal :) |
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A couple of things I need to make a bit clearer, I think.
Firstly, whilst I have no problem with TVs and CDs, I am NOT looking for a relationship with one, even if you DO say you're Dom!
Secondly, why is it that people don't seem to be able to see the contradiction with Forced Bi? What is forced if you are wanting it? I'm not into any form of Bi, much less forced. Why? Mainly because it does nothing for me, but also because I don't do anything sexual with subs, as it says in my profile; besides which, none of you seem to know how to be clean! Have you not heard of enemas? Do you not realise you're supposed to do two before any form of anal play? I mean, really, guys? |
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