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Female Dominant, 50, NYC, New Jersey
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Female Dominant, 50, West Palm Beach, Florida
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Female Dominant, 40, Littleton, New Hampshire
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About ladycalla
I'm mainly on FL.
I'm not as harrassed over there by whiney, begging little messages as I am elsewhere.
...and if you do plan on messaging me at all, make it interesting.
Otherwise I'll more than likely ignore you.
- No, I do not want to be your masturbatory aid.
- No, I do not want to tie you up just to get you off.
- No, I do not want to know what your fecal or urinary fantasies are.
- No, I am not looking for a quick power trip fix.
- No, I will not friend you if I do not know you.
- No, I will not invest much of anything in you if you do not at least read my entire profile.
- No, your MaleDom will not be the exception to my FemDom.
- Got sex? Of course you do. Give me something I can't just find at my slightest whim.
- ...and I'll add to this lengthening list as I go along.
I am an independent, smart-mouthed, meticulous, occasionally spiteful, at times fickle, hidden spitfire of a personality with a tongue that looks like a daisy and is in reality made of barbed wire. Take care; I will more than likely appear disarmingly mild-mannered. Don't be alarmed when you find that's not the case.
I've recently gained a strong affinity for whips and rope. I like boots. I like corsets. I like the boyos and the girlies. I like candle wax. I have the ability to be a sadistic bitch--I love pain on others, be it emotional, physical or mental--however, I am instantly turned off if it does nothing for my partner. On the flip side, I can be somewhat of a masochist as well, as I love seeing how much controlled physical pain I can endure. Makes one feel alive, and all that nonsense. I can be anal and all about the details, but can oftentimes be lax and lenient on a great many a thing, especially to those who are new and learning my wants, needs, and desires through their own. Oh yeah. I'm a gobbledy-gook of character, I am.
What I look for in a sub is a bit more complex than can be expressed through a profile: A connection, both mentally and physically. A stable mentality and mature outlook are paramount as well. Whining and mewling over this or that insignificant thing is tiresome and wearying to endure. I'm not looking for a brat; I am, however, looking for someone with a playful nature outside of the bedroom I can converse and laugh with who will know when to smile with me and when to close his or her mouth.
As for a female sub, I'd like someone with a firm grasp of femininity. I'd like someone who is comfortable with the possibility of me dressing down in men's clothing and giving her a good, masculine spanking. I want someone who won't be alarmed when, during more than likely fair amounts of gender play, my voice gets deeper and my actions become rougher. I love to pretend to be a boy.
As for a male sub, I'd like someone who is physically strong (as I tend to go for the alpha dogs) and knows how to use that strength to my benefit in service-oriented tasks and in play, has a wry sense of wit and can laugh a little or laugh a lot. I want someone who is willing to understand that I am a woman and occasionally put the whip/rope/wax/knives down and enjoy the warm cuddle now and again.
As a general statement, I want someone willing to take the sub face off once in a while when appropriate and act and react to me as a person behind the kink. As I stated in regards to my sadism, I'd like a masochist to match--or, at least, one to be willing to endure the pain in increasing amounts to please me. I value both intelligence and wisdom, hardness and softness, humor and somberness.
I'm a person through my kinks, and a person I'll remain. That is a constant, and as long as we both remember that, we'll get along just fine.
Feel free to message me; don't be shy. As for instant messaging, I have Yahoo and will use only Yahoo. A smoothly-running PC makes for a happy Lady. If you do indeed message me, and it's specifically for the purpose of seeing if we are good fit D/s-wise or what-have-you, try not to make it seem copy-pasted. I consider such things spam, and spam thrown in my general direction is for chewing on and spitting out--never savored.
I'm really a fun-loving, friendly type of person though. Really. Try me. :)
Oh, and as an afterthought: Don't use any of my pictures on any medium without my express permission. Don't take any form of my written work without permission from me, either. I own them and all the fancy little letters and ideas/concepts they're composed of, et cetera, et cetera. |
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