lady1sass

I'm a sensual, bright, adventurous, warm-hearted BBW. I've been in the scene about a year. I'm poly -- married and also in a M/s triad. Looking primarily for play partners. My husband and Master will each want to meet any potential partners, and if you are married or in another significant relationship I will want to do the same. Local to the SF Bay Area only. I prefer someone who is involved in the local BDSM community.

I am sassy, intelligent, curious, and flirty, but also a bit shy. I am a BBW but I am comfortable in my skin and with my sexuality. I am fairly masochistic except for my breasts where I am truly masochistic; I love nipple torture, it is such a turn-on for me! There are a lot of things I haven't tried yet but I am willing to try almost anything once or twice.

But besides the physical aspects of BDSM, I love the mental aspects of it. I love giving up control to a man worthy of taking it and using it for our mutual benefit and pleasure. I love that mental, spiritual, connection between Dom and sub that sends spirits soaring.

I believe that the foundation of any BDSM relationship has to be trust, and that trust takes active energy and lots of open communications on both sides of the power dynamic to make it work. But the return for the investment in trust is the strongest loyalty and devotion.

Outside the scene I'm a respected Silicon Valley professional, a working mom to two boys, and an active member of the local (non-BDSM) community with a wide variety of vanilla interests as well.

If this profile looks interesting to you, if you are the kind of man who can inspire an intelligent woman to give control to you, not because she *has* to, but because she *wants* to, I hope you will contact me and see where it leads!