I am a Lady with one foot in the "vanilla" world and one foot in the world of D/s. Experienced briefly, visited "sub space" back down to earth and needing more... and am now sure it is the sexual lifestyle I need.
I am looking for a partner who I can connect with on all levels (not just a guy that wants to just spank my bottom,be rough with me and order me about) someone who is "naturally dominant" and will connect mentally initially with me,respect me,laugh with me and have the desire to keep me safe whilst disciplining me in the bedroom.
Ideally someone who I could grow with whilst having lots of adventures, have a long term relationship with, but someone who also wishes to take it one step at a time.
Now here is the tricky part....... Because of my domestic committments my time is very very scarce so anyone I meet would have to respect that even though they are in my head they wouldn't always be in my company...perfect for some lol.
I also need to say that I DO NOT have one night stands and looking for long term vanilla/Ds relationship ONLY.
Because I have rattled on so much about my sexual side I will leave the other parts of my personality for you to find out about if we chat.
I would also like to add that I am a very strong willed,independent feisty lady who just wishes to drop into the "controlled" mode in the bedroom then jump back into life with both feet!
P.S. I do not have a pic on my profile for obvious reasons but more than happy to show my face if I feel there may be a reason. New to this so your patience is appreciated and also your forgiveness if I get it wrong.
Lucy
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