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Today 3-11-18.

My Dom and I are strugging with real life commitments and demands. while we still care deeply about each other we will be open to talk for now.

Please feel free to email and talk with me as I am interested in intellegent intercourse and conversations.

As of Today 11-6-17, I serve one Dom with joy.

I am His and only take direction and give pleasure to Him.

I am taken.

A new beginning. as of this week i am under consideration of a very special Man with whom i have a strong chemistry which is growing more intense. i seek no other Dom, Master, Daddy or Sir. friends are ok but i will limit my time on collar space by choice. lacyann.

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8/13/2015 9:09:21 PM


For now I am only interested in online friends for chat. I am working on some personal stuff and need to work thru that before I will be comfortable being around anyone.



i'm back, however not sure what i'm looking for, hope i'll find it or it will find me...{#}

working full time now,

looking for friends, and if something else comes so be it.

, and trying to have a life.
didn't lose much weight, and would still like to.
still a sensual submissive woman.

8/8/2013 6:05:57 PM

once again when I turn out to be real, they disappear.... just turn off their profile.

just say no and I will never contact you again.

but I am very real.


8/1/2013 2:56:09 PM

Just looking for friends for now. if more comes I am open.


3/9/2013 9:27:52 AM

as of today i am on my own again.... he had a very strange concept of a relationship and i gave my all to one man in my life already..  Not that i am not willing to give my all, but communication is the key.. and communication goes both ways. ;

12/6/2012 6:14:00 PM


this girl is officially collared. have both a locable collar and a beautiful pink geode necklace for daily wear.  i may speak with others but would appreciate your contacting my Master at


 his page here on collarme.


thank you .


11/7/2012 8:41:58 PM

this girl has decided to commit to one very special Master,

i will talk with others but will not play on line or otherwise.


10/25/2012 9:06:53 PM

this girl is playing with one specific Dom, i am wrapped around his little finger, and had a wonderful day today with him.


10/14/2012 8:14:52 PM

wondering if there are any widowers, out there who would like a nice sub to add to their life


9/7/2012 10:30:10 PM

lonely bbw with too much baggage seeks outlet..... lol


5/15/2012 11:39:07 PM

Why do some dom's think that being dominant or a master means being abusive, and degrading, do thay not understand the gift we submissives give them?


5/15/2012 10:38:16 PM

Looking for some one special who will help me get back to some regular discipline, and consistency in my life, some motivation, and guidance.


8/22/2011 9:21:24 PM


seems like the realities of life turn people off and then they become rude...

what is wrong with honesty?


2/8/2009 6:58:46 PM
I've met someone i like very much, so i'm out of circulation at this time.

6/25/2008 5:28:10 PM
When e-mail fails try y IM for detoxcat
she answers her e-mail there too,

6/3/2008 9:19:27 PM
alone again,  he was married and could give me only play, that was ok, but i do want more in the long run.

1/8/2008 3:52:20 PM
Currently interacting with one individual,
maybe someone special.

9/21/2007 3:32:23 PM
Master m,
have sent 4 e-mails, can't get through hope you get the last one,

8/22/2007 1:45:28 PM

i just wish someone would tell me what i am doing wrong, as just one or two e-mails and i am dropped like a hot potato...
one guy even deleted his profile from here.


3/1/2007 7:52:46 AM

GarySir, i have e-d twice and am not getting trhough maybe detoxcat on another ysite would respond.

8/24/2006 1:31:58 PM
so lonely out here does anyone respond to e-mails on collarme?

6/2/2006 8:54:11 AM
it is very confusing when one answer's other e-mails and they are never even read,
is any body out there?  is any body getting any e-mails from others?
i know detoxcat from yho answers her e-mails,

4/18/2006 4:07:51 PM
1.An organism that lives by preying on other organisms.
2.One that victimizes, plunders, or destroys, especially for one's own gain.
if the shoe fits

4/7/2006 4:08:41 PM
how about a complete relationship...
all the foibles of normal vanilla every day life with the kink thrown in? 
is there any one out there?

4/2/2006 1:20:47 PM
I have 17 messages sent that with only 3 of those ever read?  do people ever even get them?

2/6/2006 4:40:29 PM
i no longer Serve my training/mentors,
i am a loved member of their family but that is all. i continue to seek that special Man, Dom, Master who will sweep me off my feet and carry me away to His dungeon and take all that i can give.

2/4/2006 10:21:26 AM
i no longer wear a collar of training. i wear a choker given in love and as a reminder of what i seek.  a reminder of the love and protectin offered.  
i continue to seek a Man, Master, Dom who will love and cherish me as much as i will him.
i'm still looking and getting quite lonely in the mean time.

12/9/2005 3:34:15 PM
Ok can i just find some Dom's interested in being my friend,
possible play after a period of getting to know each other,

11/28/2005 2:14:23 PM

It continues to amaze me and frustrate me that a 'real' person e-mails and voices interest people (Dom's Masters, etc) don't even have the courtesy to e-mail a response even if it is just a statement that they are not interested in me, or already found someone.

Sometimes this lifestyle is soooo frustrating!



9/27/2005 3:26:10 PM
I am currently enjoying the joy and challenges of searching for that someone special -- are You out there Sir,
where will i find You?  will my dream of finding my soulmate, lifemate come true?
the search is on,

9/1/2005 4:35:38 PM
It is soon to be time to move forward,
it continues to amaze this girl how quick some are to judge.  not every house hold in America has a computer or even cares if they do.
Some of us  find other ways to access the internet for short periods of time and live the rest of the time.  i know i do,

5/31/2005 4:40:23 PM

Lives in a Lifestyle house hold.

Master has directed pet to journal about life in this lifestyle household from a slave’s point of view.

Many things pet has been taught are different and foreign to her, also a struggle as pet has had no choice but to be the decision maker, making her own choices and those she felt were in the best interests of her family.

Sir Daniel and Mistress Cate have allowed to be opened, doorways and ideas for pet that she had never imagined. 

Pet was accepted into their house as a member. She is loved and cherished in ways she only remembers from childhood.

Pet has accepted their guidance and will continue to do so.  This is pets’ decision as she feels this is where she belongs right now in her life.

We do not have a 24-7 relationship, it is not time. Having an extra person in the home has brought some challenges as well as joy, to all of us.

Having time apart allows all of us to deal with vanilla world and other aspects of our lives.   Pet feels she probably would not be happy to be a 24-7 slave who would not work out side of the home. Work is one of her purposes and sometimes her very sanity. 


Pet arrives at Master’s house within a half hour or so after getting off work.  She is in Master’s House on Wednesdays over night and every other weekend and sometimes more often depending on a number of variables.

Upon arrival, pet puts her belongings away and gets Masters collar and kneels to Master or Mistress to request to be collared once more for their use. Pet also changes into a dress or gown with no under clothing, in respect of Master and Mistress’ 16 year old son. When children are not in the house, and approximately ½ hour after their son goes to bed for the night slaves are not allowed to be dressed.  Pet keeps a dress or gown near her after son’s bed time in case Son gets up for any reason.  Often Master is asleep so pet gets busy quietly completing some basic chores, cleaning the kitchen, making sure the dishes are done or put away if they are clean, cleaning the Master Bath, setting up Master’s Shower, making the bed if Master is not asleep, doing laundry, cleaning and dusting through out the house.

Master has certain things he likes done specifically.

Pet cleans the glass top of the coffee table; pet cleans and organizes the main Master Bathroom counter, mirror and toilet area.  Pet makes sure that Master’s closet is the way he likes it, shirts in order of long and short sleeved, button down or dress shirts on top with stripes together and solids together,  t-shirts on the bottom,  shirts all hung on hangers the same direction, and pants hung on the hangers all the same direction. 

Master likes Dinner at 6 pm and pet assists with the preparation and serving of dinner.  Sometimes pet is invited to sit at the table with the family, at which time she sits on Master’s right, other times pet stands to Master’s left, getting things as needed at the table and taking Master’s table ware when he has completed his meal.  Pet understands that sometimes pet will kneel, slightly behind and to Masters left and Master will sometimes feed pet from his own plate. When pet does not eat with the family, after they have all finished, she makes her plate and sits down to eat.  Pet then cleans up the kitchen putting away food and taking care of the dishes.   

During the evening, pet continues with chores and after they are done she requests permission to sit with Master and Mistress.  She sits on a pillow on the floor at their feet and often massages and touches their feet and legs.  Mistress also likes pet to touch and massage her back.  Master and Mistress both enjoy tickle touch, light stroking touch at bed time and they especially like it now that pet has fingernails.   Master and Mistress both think pet has magic hands so they both like pets touch.   This is an aspect of being a slave that is very positive for pet as she enjoys touching and being touched as well.    


At bed time, pet pulls down the bed, and makes up her bed, which is a foam mat beside and near the foot of the bed on Master’s side.   When Master tells her to she turns on his shower.  Already set up are two towels, His robe, His razor, His tooth brush is in the shower with tooth paste on it.  Pet turns the water on and when it is hot she informs Master. Just prior to entering the shower, pet bows to Master to allow Him to remove her leather collar.   Upon entering the shower, we both rinse to get wet, and pet washes Master’s hair first with body wash, then with shampoo then after He rinses a second time, pet puts in conditioner.  Pet then puts body wash on a shower sponge and begins washing master from head to toe.   Master often ‘marks’ pet with His urine during the shower, both while standing, she is required to spread her nether lips to allow Him to mark her there.     Pet then kneels to wash Master’s lower legs and feet, and He continues to mark her, covering her breasts and body. Pet feels humiliated and owned when he does this, the smell of his urine takes me to his ownership.    Pet washes and massages Master all over with the shower sponge and her hands, and teases Him freely, while He enjoys the water and the feelings.   Once completely rinsed, we get out and Master is dried face, front, shoulders, body, then we put the corner of the towel on the toilet seat and he puts one foot there and pet dries that foot and leg, repeating the other side, then pet dries his back, patting not rubbing.   Sometimes Master dries himself and allows pet to finish her shower, other times she goes back in after he is dry. 


Soon we go to bed, pet ‘tickle touching’ Master till he is asleep, then pet cuddles on her mat, chained by the ankle to the foot of the bed, with a chain just long enough for pet to reach the toilet and if pet were one inch shorter, the chain wouldn’t be long enough.

5/26/2005 4:23:14 PM

pet has renewed her commitment to Master Daniel and His Mistress Wife.  pet knows she is in the right place for now.  she is learning so much. Growing so swiftly.  Blooming under the ministrations of both a Master and a Mistress.  

Please Dom's out there if you are looking for a special hot slave/sub, let’s chat.  For who knows when that lightning may flash for you and i.   pet does want a long term commitment.    Building a 24/7 relationship will take some time.  The rewards will be worth the investment.

Pet is going to be one fine slave for one special Master.

5/13/2005 12:06:47 PM
pet continues to grow with each passing week.  she is learning about the different disciplines of the lifestyle.  she is practicing skills of comfort and giving service to a Master and Mistress.  she is loving every minute of it and craving more each day.

4/19/2005 1:21:42 PM
SUnday is two months since i first met with Master and Mistress.  this girl is thrilled with the amount that she has learned and craves more each day.
missing them when she is not in Their presence or home.
what a wonderful journey this has become.

4/19/2005 9:28:04 AM
This girl's training is going well, she has begun to crave and miss training when she is not there.  Master and Mistress are using her well and offering her growth she had never imagined.  Every session is full of new experiences and helping this girl bloom in the love They have shown her.
she loves them as well for all They are giving and offering her.

4/1/2005 1:49:23 PM

This wonderful journey of learning and growth, has been exciting, enticing and occasionally anxiety provoking.  This girl is growing in ways she never imagined.  she now craves to serve with her very body and soul.  Thanks to a very special Master and his Mistress, she is blossoming into the slave she truly is with in her heart. 
Seek the master of your dreams all you with desires of submission and bloom into the beautiful flower you are.

2/25/2005 12:39:38 PM
i have decided to look into and commit to a Training agreement with a Master  from this site. If i become a free agent at a later date i will post again.
thank you for your interest.

2/21/2005 2:25:10 PM
The Masters, on this site continue to amaze me.  They appear to expect to play on first meeting, play only with them, yet share minimal information.   At this point in time, i have made no commitments to anyone except myself, I am no longer committed to my Dom- Mentor.    I  choose who and when I play.   I'd love a long term relationship.   sure hope there are others out there interested in that too.

2/8/2005 3:23:00 PM
Unfortunately, i have been very ill with the flu and have had no access to computer.  I will try to catch up with everyone as soon as i start feeling some what better.  This is the longest time i have been sick in over 14 years.  Doctor just doesn't know what to try next.  thanks for your support lacy

1/27/2005 9:36:57 AM
So far i am learning alot.   i believe that i am not slave material as i do not think i could give up all choices to the hands of a master.  i am submissive toward men and others as well.  and enjoy the bdsm activities.  Maybe just a relationship with some kink? 

1/22/2005 2:55:11 PM

 is it me, or are Doms so arrogant that they tend to be so discurtious (Spelling?) that they do not respond when you e-them?

1/21/2005 9:03:18 AM
I believe that i have come to some understanding of a number of aspects and although i am submissive, i do not feel i could be a slave.  there is too much independence in my character and i have for many years had to be independent.  i'm not perfect and i feel i would like guidance, i need open communication not a 'just do as I say because' attitude.   i guess what i mean is that i'm not a door mat. i have been hurt in the past, although i recognize that i made choices in that situation and choose to learn from it.  Which is also why i feel the need to get to know people and build trust.

1/19/2005 8:50:49 AM
HI again, any DomDaddy's out there, have recently chated with one and realize that, that may be exactly what i'm looking for.  would love to chat more about what a DomDaddy is and what some of their ideas and expectations are.  i am a daddy's girl at heart, and this discussion was a light bulb in my heart.

1/16/2005 1:26:59 PM
sure hope people don't think, i'm a flake, just going through a lot right now, trying to figure out what i really want in my life and exploring who i really am. if you give me a chance and talk with me. you'll find  that i am a very special giving loving person, who just needs some guidance.  and some better limits and boundries.  so tired of being along that i'm not always making good choices in some areas of my life. very stable in work and more stable now with children who are on their own.

1/10/2005 9:50:54 AM

Why is it men expect that we subs must immediately submit with out the subtle development of a relationship or getting to know each other or developing trust?

am i so unusual that i require a building of trust and getting to know someone prior to  commiting myself to any more of a relationship?  

1/7/2005 11:35:59 AM
Have been alone far too long, unfortunately that has required me to be quite independent when i truly want to be submissive.    hopefully an Intellegent Dom will see my independence as a strength while reining me in providing the guidance and discipline i need in my life.

1/6/2005 9:54:16 AM
Would like any one checking me out that i'd love to find friends interested to discuss the in's and out's of D/s and coming to this point in our lives.  hoping for LTR at some time in my future. lacyann

12/2/2004 10:14:35 AM
Sirs, Madams
at this time i have been taken under the wing of a Dom- Mentor. accepting his guidance and training.  this is not a ltr and i will be looking for that in the future. 
thanks for your interest.

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