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So I have seen sweetjen32 go through 3 Doms in past month. She bitched no one took her serious...wonder why? He last "collar" was to a baby Dom. Now she says she is searching again. I am just SHOCKED no one wants her |
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Here is another observation.
I read the journals daily. It is a fun habit for Myself. I have, as of late, seen ALOT of bitching and whining about how fake people are, how rude and how inconsiderate. I have made these comments Myself. What is a shocker is seeing them come out and degrade the opposite of their kind, i.e. sub/slaves degrading Dom/Masters and back and forth. Now this is usally from accounts a day or so old. How is it, you have been here a day and already think your polar opposites are wankers? It seems childish and unhealthy.
I was taught, and have seen written.. A Dom/Master can not seek to control another till he learns to control himself.
A submissive/slave is seeking to please, and in please they are pleased.
These two core statements are so contradicted by the influx of new people that I see a quick degrade of the sight and of those truly searching for their "One"
May your journey find it's safe and happy conclusion. |
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I find this funny. I read the profiles of 30+ year olds that say they have had years of experience and know what they want. But then they come and grab a 19 to 23 year old that has NO experience and will most likely ruin the submissive/slave. All they want is a quick kinky fuck and apparently that is all they want. Maybe someone should make a kink sex site akin to CM so they can go there and weeds out the fakes here.
Unless they want to train their "Dom" on how to dom them.. which is hilarious. I wish everyone that follows this line good luck, godspeed and don't cry to others because it fails, |
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I am curious. I have seen names like "IamOwned" and "NotLooking" but all brand new names. Their profiles read along the lines of "owned, do not contact me". Now this is a social bdsm site where you meet and interact witb other Doms/Masters, sub/slaves yet you make an account to not use. I find that baffling.
I can understand being owned and looking for friends. I can understand being owned and seeking another play partner with supervison. But the creation of an account to just make it...wth? |
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What is going on, on this site? I watch profiles that labeled themselves subs/slaves turn themselves into Dommes. And they aren't the switch before just straight labled sub/slave. As for Myself I am a Dominant and have a Dominant personality and personally didn't think you could trade ...oh well this IS CM after all. |
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I am curious. I have seen this about 4 times now. There are sub/slaves that post that IM addies and say to contact them, yet in their profiles it states owned do not contact. Is this like No means Yes, or what? |
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I am confused. IF you have been on CM for over 4 years but request only women who came here out of curiosity NOT because they are lifestyle, makes Me wonder. Why are you here? Why are you looking? There are vanilla sites to meet people or is it you want to play Dom to get a woman to do as told and only want someone NOT in the lifestyle because they will know you are a fake wannabe? Enquiring minds want to know. |
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My understanding is that tributing is illegal here? Where I am from most call that prostitution. And has anyone noticed it is usually some lil 20 something brat that most likely gets what she wants from her real dad and wants to be supported like the brat they are? Please, anyone asking tribute to Me is nothing but a shallow, money grubbing wannabe. |
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So you mention wanting a mentor or to chat but you ignore or do not reply to messages? Then there are those saying, msg me to learn more. I find it rude that you do not even say "I thank you but I am not interested". Can we NOT have some common decency to at least reply tp them? |
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This is to all you players, wannabes, jokers, and jesters and you know who you are. I'm a nice guy who likes to help others but that doesn't man you can frack with Me.
Don't message, chat, mail or bother Me in any form, fashion, or manner if you do not take the lifestyle seriously.
Go find your toy on some other site. |
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Ok, I can understand if you are married and cheating so you don't want to show a pic. What I don't understand is how giving a general discription of yourself is just as bad?
"I'm 5'6, brunette with medium length hair, slightly over weight with hazel eys"
That is a general discription yet I also just discribed half the women on My block. And it is eqully bad if I is asked by someone out of state and told that answer.
What the frack is going on with some of you? |
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I stepped away from CM and the lifestyle to get My life back in order. I left CM also do to the shear rudeness of alot of the submissives. If you find One better, then have the decency to inform Those you spoke with. If you come to CM with the intent of friendship as well, yet ignor a message sent to you, that to is rude. If Y/you come to CM and enteract with O/others and ignor T/their messages then get pissed because Y/yours is then ignored....DEAL WITH IT! |
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Trying this out for the first time. I have been off this site for a while but when did cutting become a part of the BDSM scene? I know from past experience that cutting was and still is a psychological issue. So does that mean that all cutters are just closet sub/slaves without knowing it? Makes me wonder. |
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