The Story of a submissive
When I grew up I was born into a woman are subservient to men and god at all times, and in some aspects even to their own family. I never knew there was a term for me or even a lifestyle dedicated to people like me that loved to serve and please others that they cared about and loved, to me it was just a automatic response because of my upbringing.
I was 25 yrs old when I found out about the BDSM and Gorean lifestyles, and became so excited and enthused to find out that I did belong and that I wasn't an outcast, so I read and studied up about the lifestyles and watched/learned from others in chatrooms and BDSM/Gorean sites. I made friends along the way and was able to define my submission as a whole over time.
I learned over the many years of being in the lifestyle most were 24/7 D/s relationships and yes they do exist contrary to belief. I have been lied to, deceived, abused, hurt, neglected etc. and yet I can not stop being me which is a natural born submissive. Many submissives have their own horror stories, some move on and some get so burnt they don't want anything to do with the lifestyle anymore, and honestly I can't blame them, it's a hard life as is without adding BDSM into it.
Though some of my hurts, pains and issues due to these bad relationships have caused problems within myself over time, I learned from them, slowly being able to define more and more what I want from a Dominant and a relationship as a whole, so to me even though they were bad times at least I learned how to please a good Daddy Dominant and became a better submissive for it.
However due to this I have my own set of expectations which I feel is no different then a Dominant having their own expectations of a submissive, they are something that should honestly come naturally to any Natural Dominant.
I expect you to be a clean and tidy person, I don't want to pick up after a slob or worry about getting an infection because you are not clean, just as if You wish me to be clean for You you must do the same for me.
I expect you to know what the word “Dominant” means and what that entails including all the responsibilities that comes with it like assignments, chores, play time, structure, rules, etc.
I expect you to NOT be a control freak because there is a HUGE difference between a control freak and a Dominant and if I have to explain the difference to you then perhaps you need to read up a bit more.
I expect you to realize that just because I am a submissive that doesn't mean my needs, wants and desires are not important nor should they be overlooked, because just like Dominants if They are not happy or Their needs are not being met they will release the submissive, well if your submissive isn't happy do you really think they are going to stick around or look for someone that truly wants and needs for their submissives happiness and well being too?
If you state you are a “Expert” at something make sure it's true, don't lie to me EVER I will leave you in a heartbeat if You ever lie to me period, I am brutally honest and always willing to discuss things, but I am not stupid either, I take things at face value till I see it in action, just make sure if you say you are a “expert” at something that you are.
I expect to have plenty of time to snuggle, make love, have hot passionate sex, kinky sex, etc so if you are not an affectionate, playful, compassionate, passionate even if sometimes wonderfully rough to the point of losing control then please look elsewhere because I am a VERY passionate, sexual, compassionate and affectionate submissive so you have to be the same on a Dominant level.
My plans for my future is to maintain a part time job in a pet store or local animal shelter and within a years time go to my local university for a 4 or 6 year degree in Zoology, I love animals and nature so be aware you must at least like animals and enjoy nature in order for it to be a compatible healthy relationship. I know how to please a Daddy Dom and I LOVE to make Him happy and please Him in anyway I can, I love doing lil surprises for Him to come home to, or go out and do things that might be “Taboo” in some eyes, but make no mistake this comes with my trust in You as a Dominant.
In short I am looking for a 24/7 Monogamous Daddy Dominant that knows how to treat His little girl and doesn't mind that she needs Him all the time :o)
Please know that I will not be moving from where i am in Texas, i am living with my family because they need me here for now, and until that changes realize that me moving to You is not a possibility nor is You moving in with me, if You chose to move here You will have to have Your own place.
