1. Because you may say you would like to be my dommr it doesn't mean that l am going to drop my knickers and let you fuck every hole for the privilege...ain't going to happen until l decide that your worthy of being my dom/play-partner.

2. Don't ever call subbie absolutely hate it no matter how its said it just feels wrong, or any other name except my given one until l want it otherwise.

3. Approach me as you would like your sister, mother, & daughter to be approached by a suitable mate not "Hi you have great tits can we meet up!"

4. Do not tell me what to wear on first meeting as you wouldn't expect me to tell you what to wear or not to wear as often the case, my knickers stay on until l decide otherwise l am not your sub just a potential new friend who may become your sub/playmate.

5. Respect my wishes on first meetings because if not then guess what we aren't going to be meeting, if l can't trust you to respect my wishes now there is not a cat in hells chance l am going to trust you in play....

6. No l am not going to invite you to my home for coffee before l have met you, not do l wish for you to bring a bottle round god so many cheap men around, l pay my way but if you think l can be had for the price of a cheap bottle of wine then you are talking to the wrong lady...

7. I make sure that on meeting l am hopefully smart and squeaky clean, my hair skin glowing and that l smell good l expect nothing less from you, see although l may want to impress you l want hell expect you to want to impress me so that l would want you for a dom....

8. I am not going to act like a submissive when we meet nor wear shoes that will cripple me just so you can get your rocks off, nor am l going to even consider proving that l am a "good girl" until you have proved that your a good person and respect all that l am.

9. Remember l am a lady of much life experience and if you lie about yourself or try to pull the wool over my eyes just how long do you think its going to take for me to suss that out...

10. Finally as long as your honest respectful and talk to me as a person then chances are if that wonderful chemistry is there who knows what delights the future could hold....