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About Kithra
The important word in "BDSM relationship" is "relationship". Each partner must be getting the things they need from it. It is not all about the Dom, nor all about the sub/slave. It is not a trashy romance novel. In this day and age, in most of the countries of the world (unfortunately, not all, I know) slavery is not possible without the consent of the "slave". It is, therefore, a consensual act.
What the form of this consensus takes is up to both partners. However, both partners have to agree to it, or it just does not work. How, then, when stripped to its essence, does a BDSM relationship differ from a vanilla one?
It doesn't.
It has the same requirements and basis. It is how those requirements and needs are met that differ from "Vanilla".
So do I sayeth, so shall it be, forever and ever, anon.
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