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About Kita
I'm a real person living in the real world that ultimately rules us all. I'm very cerebral. I have an obedience kink. Intelligence, objectification, sexualization, power exchange, mental BDSM, sensual mindfuckery and sexual control really trip my trigger. Bodies can make delicious tools, but tapping into one's mind can be something really special.
I'm a handler, not so much a user. I don't want to be worshiped, I want to be appreciated, loved and respected by people I feel the same way about. I think being given the power to use and control somebody who has submitted out of need to submit to me is such a powerful, amazing thing. It can be quite an awesome experience at times, in the truest sense of the word.
I have many facets. I'm not confused by the things I want, so if you think so you just don't know me well enough to know how analytical I am about what I do and why I do it. "No regrets" is something I strive for.
I'm polyamorous, boyfriended and I have a collared pet boy with whom I am deeply in-love. I never thought I could find somebody who meshed with me as naturally and fully as he does and I am thrilled each day to call him my pet, my slut, my property and most of all, my love.
I don't often seek relationships or my different involvements, but I find them or they find me. I like serendipity, and I think some things happen for a reason. I don't put my "ideals" out there since I honestly don't think I have an ideal aside from things like honesty, intelligence, a sense of humour and lack of drama. As with many things, I'm conceptual moreso than concrete. I judge by brains, not shells, and generally that's worked out really, really well for me (and for them!)
Aside from me and mine, I enjoy talking to people and making friends. I have been a friend/mentor/confidante to many over the years, especially newer submissives. It's something I like very much with those who are truly interested in discussing BDSM, the way people think/believe and perceive the world, and life in general.
I've been involved in BDSM for about 15 years, real-life to different degrees for 12, and joined the local scene a few years back. It's been an interesting journey, but I'm pretty happy with the way things have gone so far.
If you're curious and want to talk, by all means, drop me a line. I don't play well with people looking to cheat or people wanting masturbatory fodder, but otherwise I'm pretty laid-back and easy to talk to.
I am especially keen to find a female who has hard limits on drama, batshit craziness, and passive-aggressive disposition. If you have any interest in meeting a "nice guy" with a wicked streak, in a female body, by all means, let me know. I know what I like and how I like it, but I'm not a despotic ass and I don't deal well with manipulative crapitude so if you can't be kind in response to my being considerate, don't bother.
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It's unfortunate when the actions of so many lamers dull those who have potential to really be something shiny. Probably more unfortunate is when somebody first comes across as shiny but underneath it all is just another dullard.
I wish the possibly shiny people on CM had FL accounts. FL just seems far easier to sort out who's mainly a "do-me" not-submissive and those who have a genuine interest. So many people on CM have trouble forming full sentences, much less having any substance.
Alas, I still pop on here to see what's up. Sometimes it's months between visits, but even so. To those possibly shiny people, drop me a note some time if you're interested in chatting. I'd really like to get my numbers up on people who are genuinely interested in more than a wanker's fantasy.
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Well not a whole lot has changed from the last update to my profile. I'm a little older (fixed that already), but still in the same relationships.
Something I'd really like to find is someone more maso-leaning, possibly with a side of (non-sexual) service. That's one thing I haven't had for the last couple years, and it'd be nice to play with that dynamic again, hopefully with some potential for commitment (rather than casual, once-a-month hook-ups.) I've always preferred people I handle to be friends I speak with and/or get to see on a weekly, if not several times/wk, basis.
The kind of S/m I like is typically impact or handsy stuff. It depends on the person and tone (dynamic) but I've been known to like whipping, canes, nipple play, punching, face-slapping and a certain degree of verbosity and banter that go along with such things.
I don't really know that I'd lean male or female in my interests. I feel more inclined toward men in so many ways that that seems to have a better chance of success, but it depends on the person moreso than their genitalia. |
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For the last year or so I've spent most of my energy in this realm on FL. I have to use my full nickname there (since Kita was taken, sadly.) If you don't know what I'm talkin about, drop me a msg and I'll give you a clue.? Otherwise I pop in over here but eh, I don't really invest much time here.??
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The last 15 people who've looked at my profile have been male dominants. I find this curious since historically that's not usually how it goes. It makes me wonder if I'm on a list somewhere as a profile to perv, heh.
Oh and it's not because I have bisexual mandoms as something Im seeking unless they're bi and they just have themselves labeled as straight. If any of you care to give me a clue about this I'd welcome it. |
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Right now there are only two things on my main "wish list" as far as BDSM and the relationships I would like to form.
The first being I would like to find a female submissive who meshes with my approach and preferences in this realm and beyond it. That's going to be left rather vague right now since it's a very broad, complex subject that makes me think it's something I will find when I'm not *looking* very hard.
I will flesh out a follow-up on that in the nearish future.
The second is that I would love to form a friendship with a bisexual (or homosexual) Dom/switch male. I mesh better with male Doms to begin with and the idea of tag-team/tandem play is very appealing at times. As I don't live somewhere with a large enough population of this type, I doubt it's likely to happen any time soon. Therefore this is more of a bloop on the radar of possibility than something I spend a lot of time focusing on. |
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I decided I wanted to use the name I actually use these days since my old CM profile was a nick I used, gosh, in the 90s. Heh.
So here I am. |
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