I am looking to find another sub/slave to train along side my pet. They should be willing serve me as well as be apart of Mine and pet's sessions. I do not really get off on sadistic pain however I do enjoy humiliating, breast play, as well as giving a sub/slave what she wants,I love making women orgasm as hard as their minds and bodies will allow it. I also enjoy being served and just being dominant in general. My limits are very minimal. I am in no way a switch, however I am open to talking to like minded Doms/Dommes for friendship.
I will talk to anyone worth talking to but if you are a male I want a picture in your email and you should be bi-sexual if you are looking for anything more than chat unless you have alot to say to convince me you are not just a cute face. If you really want to catch my attention have something more to say than wanting to talk about pet. A subject we both have in common. I love intelligent people,and don't define intelligence as just book smart or problem solving ability.( intelligence comes in many forms: body intelligence knowing what your body does and having good muscle control,emotional intelligence:being able to read others and react accordingly,musical intelligence ,spatial intelligence and the list goes on but you get the picture).I think of myself as a well informed person ,and a good teacher. Whether you are curious or an expert write I am sure we'll have great conversations. Intelligent conversation will at least get you that back. If there is anything else you are curious about just ask. female sumissives and slaves it is perferred you are bi-sexual if you are looking to have any sessions with Me or U/us. But it is not required. pet is with me most of the time and i normally do not train and otherwise without her in my presence. pet is interested in possibly being the top-sub over another sub/slave someone under my discretion.
I prefer the word culture over lifestyle to describe myself ,although these terms seem synonymous; The term lifestyle to me connotates a choice as in I choose to live life in this style. Culture is a separately identifiable group with practices values and goals in common (there is no choice implied).Maybe we need to use the term lifestyler to designate those who practice BDSM and any other fetish play only to spice up their bedroom as a choice. Therefore those who live it because it is truly part of them and how they live their life we can designate as "culturally BDSM". Another reason I prefer the term culture is it also implies a betterment or refinement of the individual, Which I think the shared goal of the BDSM culture should be. A third term I'd also like to introduce describes those that are into BDSM due to certain neurosis this would be habitual. This describes most of our Sadist and little masochist friends (you know who you are ;) As well as anyone who is drawn to this community only because of fetish hang ups most of society would call neurotic, But don't share in the culture perspective.
So to recap I have identified 3 distinct groups of the BDSM community
cultural-Has no choice in the matter it is part of their value system aswell as their attitude and perspective
lifestyle- only lives it in the bedroom or at a club (these people have an attitude closer to those of the swinger community)
habitual-Have a fetish hangup that draws them to the BDSM community but lack the values and perspective that makes up those that are culturally bdsm.
A parable by Me
a great sword master toils away at each masterpiece to only watch it break or rust
he tries method after method and with no success he finaly decides he'll craft his finest sword ever and use the finest metal with the newest technologies and then get a monk to bless it surely this will make it last
after doing so he is satisfied with it but after 20 years of use and the sword master is feeble in bed he sits watching his sword rust
and can do nothing to prevent it because he is bedridden
on his day of death a monk comes to see him and as the monk is talking he looks over to see surface rust pitting his masterpies=ce and asks the monk why the blessing didnt work the monk said you were blessed with a long life so you can keep the sword maintained just as you are failing the sword is failing without your love or care like all things you possess it will go to where it came
if you have the desire for the sword to live on then you must pass it to one who will love it as much as you
he tries to give it to the monk and the monk says first off i have no use for material items
secondly you kept it to long and grew to weary to keep it up it is beyond repair and will pass with you because you loved it so much and thought you owned it you failed to pass it to one who could care for it better
that is what i meant by permanence
