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Male Dominant, 19
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About kalthus
Kalthus is obviously a ‘nom de kink.’ For professional reasons, I’m not going to use my real name, and nor am I going to put my photograph on the site. I watch CSI, I know how it works…
I’m a polite and caring chap ( the term ‘proper English gentleman’ has been applied.) I’m educated, cultured, and adventurous. I have a good sense of humour, in fact – yeah, I’m not very PC. I love film, theatre, SF, history and intelligent TV. Big fan of Nurse Jackie, Dexter and Sons of Anarchy.
I want to spend time with a beautiful, intelligent woman, who has interests about which she feels passionate. She has to like nice food, the arts, films, and dressing up – a touch of elegance appeals. I’m really just interested in people and don’t have too many preconceived ideas about potential partners.
I don’t want a 24/7 relationship at the moment – I value my freedom too much for that, and I also value the time I spend with my partner. I want that to be about – ‘what play should we see, which dish have we not tried yet, can we have a go at this new position’ – not same position as always then? You start having sex, I’ll just catch the last few minutes of Graham Norton’. I suppose what I’m after is the old style girlfriend, who you have to wine and dine. Even a play partner would have to be someone I could share a drink and a cuddle with.
I’d describe myself Basically as a dom, because I like to be the one doing the hair pulling and bottom smacking. But I enjoy understanding how my partner responds and ‘playing’ with her – controlling and enhancing her pleasure. My big turn ons are visual and tactile – boots, silk, gloves, scarves - I don’t do sordid. I’ll treat a lady like a slut, as long as that makes her feel special (if that makes sense?) Some people have told me that’s not very ‘dom’, but I just think that the KNEEL BITCH brigade lack imagination.
I rather like the term ‘a caring bastard’ – kind of sums up my approach. |
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Strange thoughts running through my head today....
Fascinated by the idea of impersonal yet elegant sex.
Thinking how much fun it would be to be staying in a nice hotel and have a woman visit purely for my use. Masked, but otherwise naked (and - this part tickles me - one of those long, elegant Edwardian ostrich feathers in her hair). To have her stretch out on the bed, not speak, just open herself to me.
My task is to make her communicate - to moan, sigh, giggle, something. Yes, she's submitting with her body, but what about her mind? I could just take her, but where's the fun in that? Controlling her by pleasure is far more interesting.
Gradually making her submit, making her personality emerge. Getting her wet, making her gasp. Seeing the light in her eyes as she becomes genuinely excited. Finally, kneeling her on all fours in front of an antique mirror and fisting her from behind. Her red fingernails dig hard into the silk coverlet, but her eyes are fixed on her own face in the tasrnished glass. Only when she's on the very edge of loosing it do I actually mount her.
And then we lie together, gasping, cuddling, kissing. Do I want to remove the mask?
I think I'll keep the mystery...
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