KaltethsKitten

Hi! I'm Kalteth's Kitten, if ya couldn't guess. If you have read his profile, then you know a bit about us. If not, then take a breath 'cause I have a lot to say!

I'm a very happy kitty! *purrrr* <--- See! I've catagorirized myself as switch here because when it comes to my husband, I cannot comprehend being anything but submissive and adoring. When it comes to everyone else, I generally take the lead. I like being in charge for the most part. I'm 25 and Kalteth is the first person that I have ever wanted to be submissive to, that has gotten the clue. It just seems right with him & he most definately agrees! I'm super friendly, but I don't like to put up with stupidity and I'm very opinionated.

Bisexual? I think. I love the male body, but I'm am very protective and nurturing to other women. I enjoy beauty in all it's forms; body, mind, etc... I have never been with a woman and have only really begun to be curious about doing so since my relationship with Kalteth. Honstly I am actually quite curious. I enjoy men, but the thought of being with another man other than my husband, just isn't a turn on. Now if he could just clone himself...well, let's just say I would be very pleased. I would like the chance to see if my attraction to the female body is something that I would be comfortable expressing in a physical manner, but I can only see me trying this with someone I am comfortable with as a friend first.

Why here? Like I have said, I have never been in this kind of relationship before (over 6 years long now). I have never felt the way I feel for him with anyone else, hence why we are happily married. I also have had no one to share this with, no one with some of the more not so vanilla interests that I have to gossip with. I am here mostly for freinds, either gender. I am certainly not here for a Dom, so don't waste my time or yours.

My thoughts on BDSM...

If you are still reading, I give you kudos. I said I have a lot to say. I talk a lot when I'm nervous. I warn you now though, some of what I have to say next may highly offend you and downright piss you off. I do believe I mentioned that I am opinionated. Well, I especially am when it comes to topics as heavy as BDSM.

For some people pain can feel really damn good! Trained, either self-trained or with a good teacher, pain can become almost as sensual as more vanilla foreplay. Pain and pleasure combined...This can add a lot of spice to a relationship.

Slaves...I am not one. It may be hard for some in the BDSM community to understand, but despite being delightfully submissive to my husband, he and I share an equal relationship. I'm not kidding. He and I are best freinds in every aspect of our lives. My husband has earned my love and respect by teaching me pleasure and teaching me of myself, not by owning me. I am his kitten. I can't explain it better than that.

Dom/mes...A dominant has a BIG responsibility! I cannot stress this enough! While it is a nice thought that all subs are responsible enough to know their bodies well, I think we all know that a sub can get carried away. Trust me, I know what it is like to get wrapped up the moment of being dominated and it is usually kind of scary when I think about it after I have "sobered" up. Not to mention what if you run into someone whose desires fall past the point of self preservation?! It is not worth the "moment". You should have your limits cleary expressed before engaging in anything and do not cross those limits even if the sub says it's okay.

Hardcore BDSM...I believe there are some things that should be left to mental fantasy only! As you may have guessed I am not adverse to pain, receiving or causing, but all in realistic moderation. Seriously, "Safe, Sane, & Consensual". If there is a serious risk, hint at it mentally, but I don't think you should actually go there. I do not care if you have 30 years experience. Mistakes happen and there are some mistakes you can never take back.This said, I am not into a lot of the heavier stuff that some of you may be into.

Relationships...Whether friends, lovers, etc. are not something anyone should just jump into. I have read of perfectly healthy slave/master relationships. I applaud those just as much as I do any other happy couple. I do not believe everyone in the BDSM community are such though. I believe many are just seeking an escape from reality. I believe this taints what BDSM truly is for those of us who live any part of it. Ok, I've ranted enough. Drop me a message if ya want. I'd love to make some friends!