KalEl1975

I'm not the sort of "play acting Dom" that seem to be in the main on this site, but rather someone who has strong opinions, likes things done a certain way and likes setting rules that are followed up with consequences (good or bad). I have been in a long term relationship with a switch, however my dominating tendencies tended to clash when she was in a dominating mood.

Because I don't look at this as a way of acting out some sort of fantasy or 'role' I'm like this 24/7. I'm happy to give reasons for why I do things a certain way or want things done a certain way, however I equally don't like to explain myself all the time. Sometimes 'because I say so' has to be good enough.

My dominating personality also tends to follow me to the bedroom, where I enjoy taking control - sometimes through rougher activities, although never to the degree that I damage the person I'm playing with. In the past this has included some rope play, sensory deprivation, orgasm play, spanking, biting, pinching and 'forced' sex. This is always in a consenting environment where mutual pleasure is my main objective.

I don't have a picture up currently. If it's important to you, I'm 5'9" (176cm), was born in South Africa but have spent the last 10 years+ in the UK. I have a stocky build, keep my hair short and enjoy dressing smartly for work.