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Male Submissive, 38, Charleston, South Carolina
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Male Dominant, 39, Norfolk, Virginia
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About JustStan
Lets start with a little about meI am a 50 year old man and Ihold an advanced degree. I own my own home and work out of it as a consultant in my own particular field of expertise and manage a handful of investments as well. I have no children and at this point in my life, I no longer plan to have them. I am not chiseled from stone but nor am I a fat slob either. I could probably stand to lose a few pounds and be in better shape but for the most part, my doctor gives me a pass on those things at my annual visit. I like a good meal, a good bottle of wine and a well-made cocktail. I value honesty and integrity over all else and appreciate the rapidly dying art of conversation. Intelligence is sexy and the ability to talk about a vast array of subjects moves you to the top of the list. You need not hold the same opinions as I do but you must be prepared to defend yours ifwhen challenged andyou must be tolerant of others. Any other questions, just ask.
I am looking for a submissiveslave woman to serve me. If we are a match, Ill expect you to eventually become a live-in submissive (not right away, of course but that is the goal we need to get to know one another first and build a level of mutual trust conducive to what Iwant but I expect it to happen sooner rather than later). You will be expected to serve as my executive assistant, travel companion, domestichousehold help and yes, sex partner. Lets be clear, you will be here to make my life easier, whatever that takes. In return, you will be cared for, nurturedand provided with a regimented lifestyle to help you flourish and become a better person, a more useful assistant and a more pleasing companion. Expect a carrot and stick approach in your submission to me. I will expect you to learn quickly what is expected of you and I will reward desired behaviors and accomplishments accordingly. Likewise,yourlack of attention to detail, failure to learn despite repeated lessons and running afoul of established rules will be met by me with appropriate punishments. You will start with no privileges and strict expectations. As time goes on and you prove yourself, you will earn greater and greater freedom to function more independently while still working to serve as expected. In other words, micromanagement should lessen and eventually cease, rituals will become ingrained habits and control will come from within instead of externally.
Limits will be respected but you should expect them to be pushed, especiallyif they conflict with something I desire. I would hope that you have something to offer that sets you apart but any skills that I require but you dont have will be taught. In fact, I would expect that you will frequently be learning new skills aspart of your own desire to constantly be improving yourself.
To the outside world, we will wear the masks of a normal relationship. It will only be behind closed doors, when we are alone together or in the company of like-minded friends where your true nature will be revealed.
I do not have strict limits on age but I find that too young and there is a risk of immaturity and with that, a lack of self-awareness too old and the clay has begun to harden and it becomes difficult to shape to my liking. Nevertheless, if you think we might be a match, contact me and we can see where it leads. Although I am not explicitly looking for a poly household, I am not ruling it out at this point, especially if I find complimentary skill sets in more than one submissive.
Relocation, if necessary, will be at your own expense. Everything else is negotiable.
Finally, for the record, submissive is not the same thing as passive. Therefore, feel free to initiate contact with me if you feel we might match up. Show me you can take the initiative when it is appropriate.
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Tell me everything. Tell me your hopes and dreams, your greatest accomplishment and your secret shame. Tell me your biggest fantasies, your deepest desires, your greatest insecurities and your strongest fears. What excites you? Scares you? Turns you on or makes you recoil? I want to know everything about you and what makes you tick. I want to burrow deeply into your psyche until I know you better than you know yourself and then......use that knowledge to make you mine. |
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