not everyone is willing to explore what makes them truly happy... it doesn't have to be just a "do as i say and nothing else" i always enjoy a challenge. i am not into administration of humility as a tool or means of getting the most out of anyone i encounter. what i do expect is an equal... i get the best satisfaction from knowing i can trust the other person to make the correct choices, say the right words or do the best thing. i do not use the word "train" that is for animals. take from this what you wish... your opinion is of no consequence to me.