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About inglorious83
I am 29, and live and work in deepest corporate London (in Canary Wharf, to be precise).
It's telling that I should front-load my profile with a statement about my job; I think that stems from the fact that my job is an all pervasive force, swallowing up and consuming most of my time, and thus it can become easy, even natural, to define myself by my job.
But I think that's a fallacy. I'm not a software engineer but software engineering is what I do. I believe at heart I am a very sensitive, and acutely perceptive individual. I think it's that same acuity of perception that somehow makes sense, or explains, my interests in S&M. It's this whole idea of recognising, severely and fully, the beauty of a woman; when that happens, I don't want to taint her beauty with my hands, all I'm worthy of is bowing at her feet.
Ugh.
Apologies for the phrasing, it's a little bit purple and quite possibly cringeworthy. But that's just it. S&M for me is much more than a mere lifestyle choice, or a sexual interest; it's a perspective through which I view life, and my whole identity is subsumed in it. Words can't do it justice. It's just this ongoing, unarticulated desire to be pushed around, beaten, abused, harassed. I have a raging foot fetish, and derive much pleasure from the physiological and pyschological forms of domination, and in general I find the high of submitting myself to a truly imperious and sadistic woman something that is incomparable to anything else. Hmm... I guess I've articulated it after all. :-)
Anyway, I don't want this descend into another one of my narcissistic outpourings (I have my novel for that, tee hee).
So what else? Well, I have various irreconcilable sides to my personality. There is the grim, serious side, that bemoans all the death and misery in this world and wants it to stop, and then there's the light-hearted part of me which is given to playfulness and bad jokes. There is the stern-faced, humourless, pedantic, overly logical persona which I use to churn through my days at the investment bank I work in, and then there's the artist within --would it be too self-advertising of me to say I've got a master of arts in creative writing?
I love films, art, philosophy, novels (recently read In Cold Blood and Blood Meridian, both fantastic), talking, pubs...
I hope that gives you a good idea about who I am; if not, please don't hesitate to contact me. I much prefer actual genuine conversation as opposed to parsing walls and walls of text on a computer screen (which is what I do all day at work anyway!)
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