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Hello to all, PLEASE READ ALL I am hoping to find a few good friends where trust, clean, safe, respect and no strings are mutually seeked by both. I am open to anything safe and really hoping to understand this desire of which has been knocking on my door for years. Would you enjoy talking, or answering some of my questions. I have become very interested in experiencing CBT and other related submission which would be introduced to me by the Dom or a Dom cpl. I have been wanting to know what limits I might be taken to and then taken to the limits imposed on my. Switching has also caught my eye since I have been on here. I have never met anyone. I am a married guy where my spouse has not shown any interest in this lifestyle but has been off and on about enjoying another man. This has also caught my interest. Hope to hear from and will respond to anyone 40 and older. I am especially attracted to 50 and up. Contact me lets talk. I CAN BE, I can be a SWITCH and have over 20 years in the application of restraints, confinement, interrogations with rewards, mind control and mind control reversal, I understand that control can be enacted in the role of being submissive which is a art in itself once you are able to come to grips and understand that many submissives see the weakness of a self proclaimed Dominants and their need to be such. True strength is the ability to allow a Dominant to believe they are in Control not realizing it is you the submissive who has come to them and offered your submission. Based on the submissives obediance and actions this will dictate the Dominant's direction. I do not believe in forced submission, confinement or pain. In my past professional employment that was daily used in non negotiable events where this was the norm. I only agree to a mutual TRUST with Respect where the role and event to follow are the desire of all parties and NO means exactly that NO, ENOUGH, etc... This is used in several key words that all parties understand and agree to. Role playing is fun and also the ability to safely stop is where the TRUST WITH RESPECT comes in. I am attracted to the mind where the Lustful, Passionate, Desire's of the Heart are Born. This is where I find riding the Edge of Pleasure the most exciting. I Love nothing more to see, read or hear the Long Deep Pleasure of ones Lust Fulfilled needs being met. I have elected to not share an open photo online this is once again due to various concerns. Once I have been convinced as you have of a Mutual Respectable Trust has been established I will gladly share a photo with you. I am open to any and all disscussions and hope I may find several regular friends that I may speak to time to time here. THE ONLY SECRET YOU EVER KEPT IS THE ONE YOU HAVE NEVER TOLD.

5/13/2009 10:07:46 AM I am hoping to make contact with others 45 years and up where we may share our interests in BDSM. I hope to hear from you since if you are reading this there is a reason. Don

4/13/2009 2:43:24 PM My favorite play is extended foreplay, choosing to or being made to deny myself of completed pleasure, getting right to the edge the point of no return then not going over the edge but riding the erotic high of pleasure, where the mind explodes over and over with deep, erotic, passionate desires. Once you have arrived to this place and are able to stay there without going over for days at a time, where your body and mind crave to stay now not wanting to go over the edge since now riding the edge brings far more pleasure, experiencing where ever you go, walking, sitting with spouse family of friends, shopping, yard work  where and whatever you are doing you now have flowing continuously thru your body a erotic high which only thru the mind and control of oneself(or at the control of another) will at the time you(or they allow) choose release an explosion of built up pressure that will leave you ready to go again riding to the edge seeing how far you can go the next time. I have gone nearly three weeks to a place I cannot share until you yourself have been there. Getting to that point is far more than just denial of orgasm and only those reading this who have enjoyed the ride can understand. I hope you may be able to enjoy being taken or going urself to your edge(we all have a different place we each can call the edge). Please let me know if you also understand and have enjoyed and still do. I look forward to any and all responses and experiences you have had or seek to encounter.