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Male Submissive, 38
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Male Submissive, 38, new york
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Male Submissive, 50, new york city, New York
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About HousePaladino
We are an established Master/slave household. Master Gregg is a highly experienced Dominant, Top and slave Owner with over 16 years of experience in our lifestyle. Slave brigid is a switch who happens to be a slave. She has been in the lifestyle for over eight years and has been enslaved for almost three years. She has found her truest nature in service but maintains her interests in bisexuality and in certain circumstances switching. Slave brigid serves in the traditional role of Chatelain de Mason (you will find it in the "Story of O" - a badly written fiction that none the less does provide the foundation of our lifestyle in the het-community.)
What we offer:
An established M/s household located on 2.5 acres of semi rural Monterey county. We live the lifestyle 24/7. Our house is closely associated with several other M/s, D/s and BDSM households including the Wolfe household with profiles here.
We offer short term and long term opportunities to learn. We welcome both those seeking part time/occaisonal association and those seeking a long term home. We help to facilitate emerging slaves, submissives, switches and dominants who seek to learn in a supportive and safe environment. We particularly enjoy working with couples.
The household is open to sincere slaves or slave candidates who wish to apply for admission, either as a trainee (slave candidate) or for consideration for long term service (trained slave.) The household is also open to emerging dominants who wish to apprentice. Switches may feel free to apply as either slave candidates or dominant apprentices primarily with the other being secondary.
The household supports freedom of sexual and gender identity. Therefore, know that all will be considered on an equal basis regardless of gender definition or gender preference. The house does reserve the right at all times to determine if an individual is suited for the position they seek.
Master Gregg has been engaged with the BDSM and M/s community in many volunteer positions as a teacher, mentor, facilitator and also a board member of many non-profit BDSM groups and communities.
slave brigid, began in our lifestyle as a masochist bottom, expanded into being an SM switch, and more recently found the slave heart within her.
Our household is based on the precept that consensual SM can be a deeply spiritual activity but is not associated with any one religion or spirtual system.
Your questions and comments are welcome.
Regards,
Master Gregg
slave brigid
A brief PS:
For some reason folks indentifying as "slave" read this profile and come back with:
"oh I am not poly ...I want to be the only slave My master owns."
Does anyone see the problem in this? How can one aspire to be slave on the one hand (i.e owned, and deferring decisions to your owner) and on the other hand be the one who dictates the composition of the household and places one's ego so central that you must be the "only one"?
You have every right to be kinky, into BDSM AND Monogamous -but you really should not make up terminology as you go along.
Realize that the word "slave" in our lifestyle does not mean chattel slave in the historical sense, no one is bought or sold no one is enslaved against their will through conquest and/or abduction. We call that human trafficing these days and rightly pursue it as criminal. We do though have a tradition dating back to the 1960's in the USA of what the word "slave" means in a lifestyle context.
Slaves are by definition not mongamous - they abdicate the choice of sexual partners to their owners... There is a long history in the Leather lifestyle of associating the word "slave" with Total or Absolute Power Exchange (TPE or APE look it up on alt.sex.com.) Nowhere in that history are "slaves" permitted to dictate how many slaves their Owner may own.
A Master may choose to have only one slave, a slave may not co-opt the right to tell his or her Master that He or She may not take another slave if He or She chooses at some future point. If this seems unfair and the unfairness bothers you - then you are not a slave or a Master you may be a submissive or a Dominant. If you see this not as fair or unfair but as balanced then you may indeed be a slave or Master.
There is a parallel Tradition to TPE in BDMS of Romantic D/s in which monogamy is perfectly acceptable - why blend/bend the language until it makes no senses? Slaves are collared to their Owner/Masters, submissives have a Rose Ceremony (look it up on Castlerealm.com) binding them and their Dominants together. Both lifestyles are beautiful but if we some of us call a lily a rose how do we know what flower we are talking about?
If you are monogamous and desire to be the submitting partner in a 24/7 relationships you are a submissive... you are not a slave.
A second PS:
I really wish I did not have to write this but we seem to be getting a lot of responses from single, usually older, "straight" male bottoms most of whom are not geographically proximate.
Most of these individuals are focused on "play" and on their fetishes they want to come visit to have slave brigid top them, or to be spanked, or to be in bondage, given enemas, dressed as sissy maids or used as furniture. Some even masquarade as Cuckholds but never seem to be able to produce the alleged female partner.
While we are extremely broad minded about kinks and fetishes and very open on the subject of gender we did not mean to give the impression that we offering "drop in play" sessions or on line jerk off sessions for male bottoms that seem to want services most typically offered by professional Dominatrix's. If that is what you need - may I suggest you go to one of the many on line directories for Professional Domination Services and pay a professional for the specific services you need and want
We are very open to male/female submissive couples but if you are a solo male you really need to be able to offer the household something beyond having us entertain your particular fetish. In short consider what I would get out of being your Master and/or what slave brigid would get out of having you as a co-slave. (please note that while slave brigid does have experience as switch - she is not what most people would call a "FemDom" if you need a FemDom you need to look elsewhere.)
I am not sure why it works out that it is only "straight"male bottoms that seem to be misunderstanding our intentions - While we do hear from couples, FemDoms, femsubs, and MaleDoms of various gender orientations - the incompatible invitations seem to be coming almost totally from solo male bottoms.
If you happen be a male bottom and are reading this profile, please take a moment to consider what it is specifically that you would bring into our lives as opposed to focusing solely on what gets you off - before you write or send a chat request.
Thank you for being thoughtful and respectful in this regard.
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