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honeyjar

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UPDATE 4/5/2014: available again. UPDATE 12/10/2011: i am not seeking a Dominant -- i have one i am very happy with, thank you. i am not available. i am mainly viewing this ad as a way to socialize, and encourage Blacks in the BDSM lifestyle, especially those that are trying to lose weight. Honesty is respectfully required when communicating with me.

The honeyjar story:
i am a submissive that has been active in the lifestyle since 1997, but still have much to learn.

my greatest success is that i lost over 140 pounds between 2004 and 2006. Then I tore my miniscus in my left knee, had surgery, and gained the weight back. I am recuperating and
i am losing again.
The first two pics on this profile were posted 9/3/05. They are pictures taken at Black BEAT '05. the third pic posted 9/16/06 is of me in my Egyptian costume and it was taken by a friend at Black BEAT '06. i will continue to post more pictures later as i progress in my weight loss journey.

Most of my initial years were spent as a switch that preferred to bottom, but the last few years i have been on a journey to explore life as a submissive. I now know my true nature is that of a submissive -- no longer motivated to switch, unless directed to do so by my Dominant. i seek to express my true submissive nature.

i have been very active in my local community. i volunteered and participated with several groups in the Baltimore/Washington DC metro area. i can highly recommend that people who are new to this lifestyle should participate in the local community. Don't be worried about being exposed, all the groups i know of are very serious about protecting the privacy and anonymity of their guests and members, and discretion is very seriously enforced.

The Interest section of my ad is pretty thorough. In general i love to exercise -- (elliptical, stairmaster, treadmill, Universal weight machine, free weights, and swimming are all great!) on the less active front, watching movies and listening to music -- (jazz, soul, r & b, neo soul are favorites, newest favorite is latin music, especially salsa, courtesy of my FORMER Dom) but i like all music to some extent. Also love cats and dogs, but don't have a pet right now. i collect stuffed animals, refrigerator magnets (trying to get one from each state and from any countries i can) and foreign coins and bills. i am a Sagittarius, and i do pay some attention to how the stars affect personalities and relationships.

Best wishes to all who participate in this lifestyle, i hope all enjoy communicating through this site.

Respectfully,
honeyjar
12/10/2011 11:00:10 AM

12/10/2011:  This is journal entry is copied from my profile so I can keep it for it's historical significance.  Once posted as a journal I will update my profile  and delete it from there -- something I should have done long ago! very respecfully, honeyjar

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UPDATE: An end of an era.  Tuesday, June 30, 2009, i asked Sir Lawgiver to release me, and He did.
i returned His collar, and i go forward from here.  W/we are still friendly, so please,
no negative comments about Him.

respectfully,

honeyjar
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NEWSFLASH! i was collared by Sir Lawgiver on 9/24/06! Female submissives, switches and slaves, please check out the couple profile for Sir and i under the name honeyjewel4SirLG
respectfully,
honeyjar, Sir Lawgiver's jewel

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UPDATE! 9/16/06: i am no longer seeking Dominants
for anything other than friendship: Currently under consideration to be collared by my Sir, LG.  

1/12/2010 10:10:26 PM
i have been very busy lately, so if Y/you have sent me a message i probably read it, but i may not have had time to reply.

i hope to get online for a significant amount of time this weekend.
my apologies.

respectfully,
honeyjar

6/30/2009 8:10:06 PM
An end of an era.  Tonight, June 30, 2009, i asked Sir Lawgiver to release me, and He did. i returned His collar, and i go forward from here.  W/we are still friendly, so please, no negative comments about Him. 

respectfully,

honeyjar

10/18/2008 7:44:26 PM
NEWSFLASH! Please check out the couple profile for Sir and i under the name honeyjewel4SirLG
respectfully,
honeyjar, Sir Lawgiver's jewel
1/7/2007 9:25:05 AM

Looking for a roommate in February!

Hello, I have space available and hope to find a lifestyle roommate.  Space will become available at the beginning of February.  I am in the western part of
Alexandria (not the Old Town part).  I live in the Landmark neighborhood.  The arrangement is that I have a 2 Bedroom, 2 .5 Bath 2 story apartment in a high rise building.  Right now I am in the Master Bedroom and using the Master Bath with a tub/shower.  I have a friend staying in the converted dining room on a temporary basis. When that space is available again, I am considering using that space for exercise, if that is okay with my roommate. 

 

I am looking for a roommate to share the apartment with me, and they would be in the second bedroom upstairs which has its own bathroom with a very nice shower.  All utilities are included in the rent, except cable TV, Internet and a Vonage phone line.  I have all those exceptions in place, but the cost would have to be split amongst the roommates.  I love my apartment and don't want to move if I can help it, so I am flexible.  Let me know if you are interested.  I would like to start meeting people, showing the place as soon as possible.  If interested, please contact me here on this list/site, and for fastest response send me a phone number.  Basic info on the apartment and area taken from an ad I have on Washington City Paper website is listed below.
respectfully,
honeyjar, Sir Lawgiver's jewel 

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I have a bedroom and bath available to share in a beautiful Deluxe 2 bedroom 2.5 bath apartment with 2 spacious balconies, (great for the Bar-B-Q season!) in an awesome location. It's a 2 story Apt in a High Rise, has a W/D and DW in unit. All util. included, shared living space is furnished, and available space is unfurnished, but I am flexible if you have furniture you want to use in the shared space. The apartment has individually controlled HVAC, lots of storage space in a separate unit. Spectacular view and great location close to metro with bus service for those without a car, and easy access to I-395 and I-495 and parking for car owners.  All the amenities are nearby: Schools, Hospitals/Doctor offices, Landmark Shopping Mall and a few other shopping plazas, grocery stores, drug stores (one is open 24-hours), new library, movie theaters, restaurants from fast food to fancy.  Southern exposure great for plants, secure building, party room/fitness center, outdoor pool, and lighted tennis court.  If you want to bring a cat, you can but you'll have to pay a non-refundable deposit to the Landlord (not my rule, their rule). It is a really friendly building with residents of all ages, races and creeds that get along very well and are very neighborly.  The management is great as well. Please contact me if you are interested.

10/28/2006 10:15:12 AM
i should have posted this earlier.  Today someone asked if i am still under consideration, so i realized i needed to post this announcement: On 9/24/06, my Sir placed his collar of consideration on me!  This little girl is so happy to be owned by her Papi! Doin' the happy sub dance!! 
6/26/2006 7:40:07 PM
Camp was great! i had a great time with old friends and made some new friends.  i won an award in the pony show! had 3 scenes -- the last a very intense one.

Happy times have continued, as i met someone very interesting soon after coming home.  Stay tuned!
respectfully,
honeyjar
5/26/2006 5:53:19 PM
On my way to Camp!! Happy & excited, but sad & scared too -- going by myself.  i'll post to the journal when i get back.
respectfully,
honeyjar
4/29/2006 5:47:30 AM
i will be making changes to my profile soon.  stay tuned!
respectfully,
honeyjar
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 Age: 46
 Cambridge, MA, New Hampshire