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Male Switch, 27, BC
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About c4bl3fl4m3
*Queer EnbyNonbinary Pervert. Switch who leans sub, fetishist. Not a masochist. Mind play (esp. roleplay) bondage, power, chest compression. Knives are good for threatening. VERY into fat and feedism. Feminist. Geek. Looking for friends in my area my future spouseDominant for something thats between only in the bedroom and 247.
I have skills in needles and fire (and used to give a lot of needles), but its been a VERY long time since Ive given those things (esp. needles), and would probably want to take a refresher course first.
I find flogging to be insanely boring, for the most part, do NOT understand the appeal. If flogging is your big thing, we are mismatched. (Also, if pain play is your big thing, we are also mismatched.)
I was an active member of the Scene in the Washington DC area and Toronto for about 10 years. Ive pretty much fallen out of the Scene for the past 5 years or so, but would love to get back into it again (somewhat) with a partner (after COVID, of course.) Id love to go back to a GrUE, despite not really being into rope. (Im really into that unconference at. MAGIC happens there!)
Im 5foot 1inch, 350+ lbs. If thats not your cup of tea, thats fine, but you should be aware of this ahead of time. I also have multiple disabilities, some of which are serious alter my whole life. When it comes to men (for datingpartnering), Im only into fat dudes. (And I dont mean a few extra pounds, I mean FAT dudes.) Also, no military or previous military, plz. (Its an ethicalreligious conviction.)
*Im the kind of queer thats into most genders, and yes, that actually includes cismen.
(RE my dating status. Ive been with someone for 7 years, but we both agree that hes not suited to be my forever partner. Im looking for my future spouseDominant (preferably husband) what kind of relationship Ill have (if any) with my current someone is TBD. Hes aware Im on various sites, looking.) |
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If you're interested in my journal, I keep it at LiveJournal under C4bl3Fl4m3. (I was going to put a link, but it says no links to other websites, so yeah.)
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