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Pan Female Submissive, 49,  Greenbelt, Maryland
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What is a sub to do?











 Submissive Female



 5' 9"



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Dominant male

 Lives For:


 Being Massaged

 Massage (Giving)









 Art Galleries



 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires




 Body Worship



 Historical Shows

 Puzzle Games








 Antique Shows

 Bar Hopping

 Fine Dining


 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales






 Breast Play

 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community

 Hair Pulling



 Board Games


 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies (Expert)


 Liberal Politics



 Lifestyle BDSM

 Hip Hop Music

 Pop Music






 Bird Watching

 Coffee Shops



 Housework Service

 Sensation Play

 Card Games

 Show Tunes






 Curious About:


 Canes and Crops



 Corner Time

 Domestic Service

 Foot Worship



 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner

 Mental Bondage


 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control


 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Wax Play




 Gas Masks


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Hard Limits:



 G-spot Service

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fire Play


 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism


 Outdoor Bondage

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Journal Entries:
1/9/2013 6:20:31 PM

I borrowed this from a friend  TheRaven on .  I had to repost for  someone to learn this lesson.

Take note.  A mind is a terrible thing to waste.

 “You’re no submissive!” (when I don’t get my own way)
“You’re no submissive!” (when you question me)
“You’re no submissive!” (when you won’t obey)
“You’re no submissive!” (when you express your opinion)
“You’re no submissive!” (when you disagree with me)
“You’re no submissive!” (when you say no)

 I’m “no submissive” when you disregard my needs.
I’m “no submissive” when you don’t allow me to understand.
I’m “no submissive” when you don’t help me feel safe before acting.
I’m “no submissive” when you dismiss my views.
I’m “no submissive” when you won’t accept our differences.
I’m “no submissive” when you violate my rights.

When I’m “no submissive” - you are no Dom.

 @ x_TheRaven_x  Thanks for putting this out there. 


11/17/2012 9:09:31 PM

Just me and you, alone in a room.  I'm lost, and afraid of dissapointing you.  So I am reaching out, Out to you hoping you will be able to pull me through.  I ask you for your guidance.  I open up myself to you. 

10/24/2011 6:33:02 PM

Here again.  Not sure what I am looking for, but like to get some direction.  You have to be more than just Dominate out your mouth because I have a strong personality so if you can train me I am here.

9/9/2009 7:23:30 AM
I just dont know what to do.  Somebody help me decide which direction to go in.

7/29/2009 7:41:12 AM
I feel like being a bad girl today.

7/13/2009 8:00:12 PM

what I do know, I am a good thing, and anyone who finds me has truly found a wonderful prize. 

9/22/2008 6:13:28 PM

 Thank you for all the communications received.

9/19/2008 8:25:31 PM
Well, seems things are moving along well, at least at this stage. We continue to talk and must admit there is chemistry. He has a very unique style of Dominance .

9/9/2008 9:47:35 PM
WOW, I think I may have found a winner, we will see after we explore more and learn.

9/8/2008 11:37:31 AM

This lifestyle is just that a lifestyle and so many of the people here are using this site  for all the wrong reasons.  Predators and leeches, they have no intention on respecting you or the lifestyle.  I feel so bad for most of the bottoms on here, especially the new ones, that have no direction.  So Domme, Doms, Masters, and Daddies, if you are really not a lifestyler and you are here to use or harm these subs, slaves, etc here, why don’t you just leave them alone.  You make it bad on the real people, and on the lifestyle.

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