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Male Switch, 25, Orlando, Florida
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About HolyLovin1
What words are you even interested in reading? Will it make any difference how you will behave? People will see what they want to see... I lead and give direction and yet can learn will you choose to follow and share who you are? Do you know who you are? What are your expectations? I expect people to follow their nature and desires. Helps if you know what those are for yourself. If you step into my circle... my attention and perhaps my protection you may have or if you prefer my punishment. why complain your alone and have no one it is your choice I have been known to accept people for who they are. To see, understand and believe I am not alone I protect those in my circle I can be verified and have references people can judge themselves I am not required to judge them. Breathe |
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I enter this arena of searching for the people in this lifestyle who wants more than just "play" but wants to join something "real". for those of you who believe you could be a wonderful addition to a" BDSM Family"...
Permission is granted to PM me in chat rooms.
Instant Chat requests welcome If I do not accept I missed it.
I utilize several instant messenger services.
I am an experienced Dominant, that is in search of my Utopia. This
would include a BDSM family. If you have not heard what a "family" is
just think of your own, and subtract the dysfunction and drama. I am
accepting of all age ranges (within reason, you MUST BE LEGAL) and body
types, and I do not limit myself to only female submisives or slaves, I
will accept submissive men as well.
That being said, I am a faith based Dominant, this journey we take,
we take together and it is as much a spiritual journey as it is fetish.
The family environment is filled with a serenity and love, without the
trappings of jealousy and judgment. I am kind, I am philosophical, and
a theologian. "I am a sexy man of God and I know it." It is within your
heart, that resides your soul, I wish to reside there as well. I wish
to share our lives not just our bodies. There is so much to learn, each
and every day on this earth, and together we can learn those lessons.
Life is not eternal, it is my wish to spend the time we have,
enjoying each other, enjoying the world around us and its multiple
blessings. I wish to share in your joy, in your sorrow, your
excitement, and your pain. I wish you to give to me your being and I,
in turn, will give you my unyielding love. You will be special, you
will be loved, you will be cherished, you will be protected. You will
be taught, and corrected if necessary, and you will be given
opportunities to be, whomever you are, without risk of rejection.
Join me, and let us walk together through the unfolding days and
nights, let us learn together, play together, love together, worship
together, and live together in the peace and serenity that many have
longed for yet not achieved. I welcome you with open arms and an open
heart. |
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Why find love:
Love such a small word with such power,
Interesting that love is represented by a thorn and a
flower,
It is written that the heirs will be the meek
Yet it is something that not many seek
The understanding of the term freedom of choice
Is much more than raising your voice
If you believe it to be true, it can be created
But once you find it you often evade it
Love is sought by all at some point, few find or conceive it
No self proclaimed master can control or wield it
BDSM was supposed to release us from the vanillas? limited
evil views
But now we have our own labels that limit and confuse
Is ones submission a gift worth more than ones offer to Dominate
Is it a choice to follow, to lead, to plead, to manipulate
Love is a choice in freedom and perseverance hour after hour
Backed with commitment and emotion that gives love its power
----by Jerry Miles |
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I understand everyone has been hurt emotionally (not in a good way) that makes them fearful of getting hurt again. It is sad that people want to spend years protecting themselves by hiding behind an online alter ego.
I hope to find people willing to invest themselves in a real lifestyle relationship. Verification is important. be honest with yourself and us. As everyones' time is of some value understand that unless you are willing to be viewed on cam. Do not plan to talk with the Lady. She will verify herself when I am satisfied that you are ready to move forward. Be willing to follow instruction don't try the "I will obey when I get there."? With all the people searching at least know what you hope to achieve and some idea how to make that happen. The world is overrun with the clueless. Do more than dream ....plan then execute! ?
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Well do to the nature of some to look for a criminal often the innocent are wrongfully accused. because I had only a back picture of a sub I was training, who is small framed, was in a pic with me someone thought I had a child in the pic with me. reported me to admin and all my pics were removed from my profile I will get some pics back up as soon as I get it cleared with collar me. The world should be a better place when it is filled with all these would be heroes!
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Changing my intro moved old one to my journal....
Attention Lifestyle Enthusiasts!!!
Introducing Master Lovin!!!
Thank you, Thank you,
I
would like to thank CollarMe for this opportunity to meet and network
with other people in this lifestyle. For those of you who don?t know
me,
I am undeniably a dominate individual. I maintain a polyhousehold.
We love to travel and live a life of open freedom. We have three young
boys and a daughter that are a very important part of our lives. Which
is why we are selective in who we bring in to our lives.
We are looking for life long commitments/contracts from slaves, submissives, animals, switches male, female, trans and extraterrestrials.
We
are always willing to make new friends and network with others in the
lifestyle.
I am also open to mentor anyone new to the lifestyle or
anyone who would be interested in any form of counsel.
Let me now share some basic views
I have on the lifestyle?
My Meaning of Dominance:
I
believe that a true Master is first in control of himself ?and second
completely knows what he wants and how to communicate and trains his
subject to fulfill those desires. Third pays attention to detail of
every subject to reward or punish each individual. A Dom has the
responsibility to those who serve him/her in living out their roles and
dreams in this lifestyle. An intimate loving relationship goes beyond
sexual intercourse. Yes, for example, it is possible to degrade or
humiliate a woman out of love. A Dom can attain this without
disrespecting her like some kind of doormat. Amazingly there are ways
to treat her like a doormat out of love, based on how she identifies
herself. My Passion is to live life to the fullest to experience things
that average people would cringe at the though and cower in fear.
Limits in the lifestyle:
I
personally have no limits to speak of that does not mean that you can
not have limits of your own. I can expand your tolerances without
crossing over your hard limits. In my Dominate role there is nothing I
can not accommodate in one form or another, for those of you who seek a
more hard core sadistic master.
You
do not need to feel by having your person limits, in some way, I will
find you a disappointment. Attempts to please within your limits with
your whole heart, mind, body and soul is more than pleasure enough for
me.
Connection:
I spend more time in the introductory period, dealing with the heart and mind of a potential slave than anywhere else.
In
the establishment of a relationship communication and understanding is
a critical key for success. I need to know every detail of who you are.
I will ask you things that make no sense, to you, but will tell me more
than you can imagine. I will learn things about you that you may be
unaware of. In many cases my process is both revealing and healing.
I
hope to enrich the lives of those who surrender themselves to service
in this lifestyle. I believe it is important to live the way we are
called, to embrace who and what we are.
I do not underestimate the intelligence or capabilities of any slave in fact I count on them.
Negotiations:
I
believe this is like applying for a career position. Please know your
skills, talents, and what you have to offer. I will conduct this like a
formal interview. Have a life goal. Have an idea where you see yourself
in a BDSM community family. Please do not ask me, ?What will you do to
me?? Clearly the answer to that question will be
revealed when you have shared your role. If you have a written
?conditions of service agreement? or ?an offer of service? you are
ahead of the crowd. Understand we are clean and disease free and
everyone will be tested before they can play. NO Exceptions.
In
closing I am a strong believer in God. While I know many feel pulled
between their faith and their desires to play. My relationship with the
Almighty gives balance and purpose to me to live this powerful
lifestyle.
I look forward to getting closer to you and developing a mutual understanding.
Domineeringly this is ...Master Lovin wishing you the best in all areas and Life!
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Slave Positions Availible...
Here is your chance to serve in a poly household this is a chasity position (for males). And we have 10 openings currently. We are looking for peope who are willing to relocate during the probationary period. Applicants will be exspected to work outside the home as well to contribute to the family dinamic. so Apply today!!! all emails will be replied to. everyone is encouraged to apply. |
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Life has once again proven very interesting. our summer will be spent camping as I am lifeguarding. As of late or search continues/ I do enjoy the contacts we have made. And hope to meet the one willing to sit under our authority. Wishing you all the very best out of life. do not hesitate to write an email so far have been able to respond to everyone rather promptly. |
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In my hope of finding SERIOUS individuals looking for R/T and or 24/7 I may have to clarify certain things to make it easier to understand.
1. As a Master it is possible to NOT be interested in cyber sex, phone sex or Cam play... However I do plan to verify who I am speaking with via phone or voice messenger? or web cam in a short period of time. that does not mean I have any interest to see or conduct sexual online games.
2. It is fine to "Invite to Chat" and all emails will be replied too.
3. Please if you are a slave, which is on the top of our search,? it would be helpful if you understood what total power exchange was, and what slavery truly means.
4. As this lifestyle has many terms, forms of play, and protocols it would be helpful if you had an idea of what you are hoping to find in a master. the fact that people try and impress their individual ideals and views as the "the way it is". Lets be honest we call it a lifestyle which in itself means "its my life choice" we are free to explore our interests and sexual experiences(helps if we find other consenting adults) with out?? being under the restrictions of society including the BDSM community. One size does not fit all.
I wish you all find gratification in your life as well as safty.
Master Lovin ?
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As we learn we grow... ??? As we dream we bloom!??
As I have grown I have decided to expand my goals and dreams in this lifestyle. We are now hoping to develop a larger vision of BDSM in our household to include submissive or switch roled individuals of any of vast pansexual community. if you are interested in being truly owned and want to find your place among other like minded individuals do not hesitate to send a message. Everyone will receive some form of a reply. I believe it is our responsibility to befriend those around us and encourage them to grow and glow...
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Sinsations In Leather....
What a great event. thanks to all the presenters, attendees and other volunteers that made it a wonderful experience. I am looking forward to kinky Kollege in the fall.
Here is to the pursuit of happiness. CHEERS!
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As the days goes by and the total? number of profiles I read increases... A simple question comes to mind.
Why feel the need to point out to your potencial Dom that you are not a doormat? Clearly a knowledgable Dominate in the lifestyle knows what a submissive is or is not. Enjoy your search People...
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