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hissensualgirl

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About hissensualgirl

Friendly girl. Motivated about the things that I find important. Intelligent, but not looking to prove it constantly. I can be normal too.

Who am I? Well, who is anyone really? I'm a woman, who isn't interested in compromising who I am for anyone else. A woman who wants to feel complete and sometimes does. Dominant and Submissive, it's complicated, but dynamic. O, and the jersey in the background is not an endorsement. I'm a Bengals fan.

Every now and then, I have a quiet moment where I remember that the world is mine. Only I can make the decisions best for me. Only I can choose to hunt or be hunted. To trust or not. Today, I am just watching. Waiting. Seeing. Sometimes all the watching, waiting, seeing, is lonely. I just want him here. Patience is sometimes too much.
Just a little obsessive. Really. Be nice to the neurotic girl.
Now and then. I would just like a nice big sign from Goddess saying.. Do this. Wait. Trust that one. Anything, to save my heart a little trouble. To keep me able, to put myself out there. Is that, so much to ask?
I hate waiting. Patience is an over rated skill.
Its nice to curl up in bed, ready to dream. Infatuation.
28 Today. I am getting old.
The switch. I get skipped over a lot because I list myself as a switch. People figure I cant possibly be Dominant enough or submissive enough. For a true switch, the sides never meld. I am happy. Very happy in either role. I love the intricacy of power exchange. Often I am asked which I prefer. To me, its not about being more natural as a Dominant or a submissive. It is about the person I meet. The person I connect with. That having been said, I have never connected long term with another switch. It is too confusing.
A few notes on the art of conversation:

Ok. I'm probably not meeting you. But, I like to chat. For a chat to go smoothly you should observe the following:

Say something more than hello, hi, etc. Saying I'm pretty isn't enough either. I know it's a nice picture.

I'll respond. I'll ask a question. You should answer, and then if you want to keep chatting, ask your own question. Don't get sexual or familiar. I won't answer.

From there, perhaps we'll chat more. Perhaps we won't. Without these things, I'm not responding.

P.S. I thought everyone knew these things, but from my many emails, I would guess not.
I want milk and cookies, a comfy nighty, in bed, with a light hearted book. My brain hurts, my heart hurts, my ego hurts. Really, I just need a little break.
Saturday morning boredom...
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